Submitted question covered in this blog/video: " Is there magick that can help with ecsema? " Absolutely! Magick is great when done side by side to medical advice, implementations, procedures, etc. Sometimes, the medicinal ingredients that we need are all around us provided by nature. Thank you for this question! Green magick can assist in making herbal potions, lotions and salves to help skin conditions, such as eczema, psoriasis, acne, dry skin, etc. I create skin surface safe salves to treat ecsema, scoriosis, sun burns, and other skin conditions. I make this particular salve to treat skin conditions with a local plant known as Plantain. It is easily found (in my area). It grows almost anywhere! Most see it as a pesky weed. Do not harvest all the leaves from one plant. I only take one from each. It is identifiable by its broad leaves. It easily hides with other plants! Often it grows along paths or on grass. Do not harvest rear road traffic! All plants can absorb pollutants. Be safe! After done harvesting the leaves, you'll need olive oil as a base, and later beeswax. Start by crushing the leaves with the use of a pestle and mortor keeping the leaves whole, creating abrasions adding intention to your workings as you work. The cracks and abrasions that form in the leaves help the plant properties to infuse with the oil. Be sure not to skip this step as it is important to make the infusion needed to create the skin salve. Select stronger looking leaves to use and discard any leaves that have dehydrated or if lost their firm texture. Place the crushed leaves in a jar that will be used to mix the infusion and allow to sit for a period of time. & Now you can add the olive oil. You can also use grape seed oil, canola oil, or mineral oil. Giving the jar a little shake can help the oil to coat the herb well. You want to add enough oil to completely saturate the leaves. Fill level to the top of the plants. Cap the jar well. Store someplace dark for at least two weeks or longer to allow the plant to infuse with the oil. Then when ready, use a colander strain the infusion into a pot that can be heated on a low heat over a fire or on a stove. Always proceed carefully when using a fire or arrive to heat ingredients to be used in magickal workings. Strain as much of the oil as possible to use as much of the infusion as you are able! I like to press the plants with a short wand to extract the remaining oils from the plant mixture. Energy and intention can be directed into the infusion while stirring and pressing the plants accordingly. The liquid should be clear and thin while heated and there should not be any bits of plant material within. This is now a very nice plantain olive oil infusion. At this point I like to add further intention with incantation, or blessings of the infusion for healing. To make into a salve begin adding small pieces of sliced beeswax to the infusion while over low heat. Be careful when slicing beeswax with a sharp knife. If can be tough to break apart. But, necessary to melt evenly. Allow the beeswax to melt and dissolve into the infusion adding little pieces at a time. It's going to take some time for the beeswax to fully melt. Be patient! It's worth the wait. Stirring the pieces around can help to melt a little quicker and to mix evenly. When the beeswax is completly melted, to know whether you've added enough beeswax, do a spoon test: Dip a spoon into the infusion mixture and if it is ready the spoon should start coated by the liquid salve. You should see a fast coating form of wax over the spoon surface. If the spoon does not appear to be coated by the liquid salve solution when it is dipped into it, then melt more beeswax into the salve. When the spoon coats well by the liquid salve mixture, then pour right away into a heat safe sealable jar or container. Be careful when pouring. Leave about an inch of space from the top of the jar when filling them with the liquid salve solution. I like to use canning jars because they can withstand the heat at first until the salve cools down. It may be hot to the touch! Use as many small jars or containers as necessary. I don't like to use large jars so not too waste. Be sure to place somewhere where the jars will not be disturbed and can sit to cool. Tightly seal the jars closed with a lid and allow to sit still until completely cooled. It's going to take some time for the salves to cool. Becareful as the jars may be hot to the touch at first. As the salves cool the mixture should become less transparent and more solid forming. The solidification of the dive mixture may not cool evenly - That's ok! Allow to cool thuroughly. When cooled, the salves will appear thick and solid. But, be soft enough to gather and spread with a finger tip. Afterwards, i like to place on my working alter as an offering of the potential healing to come. That's basically it! It is important not to break down the plantain's medicinal benifets by using too high of a temperature to melt the beeswax and mix into the infusion. Using a low heat to gradually melt the beeswax over a lengthier period of time will preserve the qualities to take advantage of. This salve can also assist with relieving pain, reaction and swelling from bug bites, bee stingings, thistle and nettle stabbings, cat-scratch fever, etc. and makes great relief for sunburns and some other skin irritations. It should be mentioned that magical workings do go great hand in hand, or on the side to medical practices. However, magick should never be treated as a substitution for medical advice of a doctor or direction of a health practitioner. Always seek the help that you need when you need it. As always, I'm an open book if anyone has any questions or comments about the information provided in this blog entry. Be safe, and blessed be.

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Are there different types of magick? " Thank you for submitting this question which is so appriciated. Because, many witches that I've met either don't even realize that there are different types of magick, or many witches form a misunderstanding as to what the different types of magick mean. For example: some witches call themselves a "white" witch (meaning only focusing on good intentions) or some use the term "black magick" meaning bad or evil. I personally feel that in today's day-in-age these white/black terms can give a very wrong impression and comes across the absolute wrong way - in my mind. I am also not referring to the type of witch. Rather, i'm speaking about the types of magick any kind of witch can do. White doesn't mean good and black doesn't mean bad. Respectively, the term "Black Magick" when used appropriately actually refers to the traditions and customs originating in African Tribal Magick. It should be mentioned that I believe that there is no bad or good in magick. As someone who identifies as a "Grey" practitioner of magick myself, this is quite often misunderstood. Being a Grey Witch means that I take an approach of balancing energy and exploring the "grey areas" of magick. This can include right from wrong, masculine from feminine, positive from negative, wealth from poverty, etc. Within my practice I'm not focusing on the middlepoint of evil like some seem lead to believe. I feel as though there is a wide misunderstanding that the types of magick that there are, are either good or bad. In my experience this just is not the case. Magick can involve noble intentions and it can also involve baneful intentions. This lies within the intentions of the caster, not within the magick itself that is done. The difference between the main types of magick IS about the intention involved. However, it's NOT about nice vs evil. There is "Neutral Magick", "High Magick", and "Low Magick" which in my view can be described together as the three main realms of witchcraft. Neutral Magick The Universe or Nature works it's own magick, in the background and witches work within it. This is the fabric of manifestations. The behind-the-scenes to a witches magickal workings is Neutral Magick. Consisting of energy vibrations, other dimentions and realms of reality, it vastly includes, but not limited to: nature; life force; energy flow; the fae; spirit; astral; gaia; the green man; goddess; god; web of life; cords; the universe; etc. etc. etc... High Magick Workings that are meant to have a spiritual purpose rather than a practical one and depends heavily on learning precise, complicated ritual and intricate sets of correspondences and associations, is High Magick. It involves improving one's inner self, which can include self empowerment, initiation, gaining divine knowledge, purification, the attraction of proper influences, embracing one's destiny, etc. Ceremonial magick is a form of High Magick in its own rite. In my opinion Christianity can also be considered as a form of high magick. Low Magick Otherwise, workings that influences the mundane or has practical purposes such as healing, attracting luck or love, driving away evil, finding lost items, bringing good harvests, fertility, etc. is Low Magick. Rituals involve day to day everyday items: plant material, coins, nails, wood, stones, etc. Most folk magick traditions and customs can be considered Low Magick which are often passed down through generations of family teachings. However, with the wide sharing of information in books and over the internet these days, more and more is becoming accessible to all whom are interested no matter their background or religion, or beliefs. Personally, my practice involves High Magick and Low Magick as I do identify as and live my life as a Witch and Seax Wiccan. Please feel free to share with me what it is that you believe. I'm always happy to hear about other perspectives from other practitioners of magick and other types of witches. It is in hopes that this has helped to clear up any misunderstandings that there might be about the types of magick that there are. At least from my own perspective. Thanks for reading my blog. If you have a question that you would like to submit, please feel free to do so, or write to me greywitchbryan@gmail.com

Submitted question covered in this blog: " what type of witch can summon a kitsune for me " It is my understanding that a "Kitsune" comes from ancient Japanese culture as a form of deity worship.  In Japanese folklore, a Kitsune is a type of spiritual fox entity with paranormal abilities such as shape-shifting into other creatures, even humans.  It is often depicted as a mischievious fox with several tails. The more tails present - the wiser and more powerful the Kitsune.  The above is familiar to me due to the fact that my daughter co-oincidentally studies Japanese culture and so she was able to fill me in further about a Kitsune. Thank you for submitting this question. Even though your question involves a practice different from my own, It is still very much appriciated because I can share some info on this topic.  I also thought it may be helpful for me to describe basically how I work with my own deities within my own practice.   Deity worship in my own practice as a Seax Wiccan involves connecting with the different aspects of human nature. Each aspect is represented by specific related personas. In my case, this would include such personas as Woden (creativity and magick), Freya (tough love and romance), Thunor (strength and bravery), Saturn (business, money, and finances), or Ty (patience, hardship and sacrifice), etc. These deities mentioned are based on Anglo Saxon traditions.   The interactive responses from these representations of each diety is based on synchronousities that can be noticed throughout my life from day-to-day interactions of my surroundings. If you resonate with, I don't think it's wrong to explore the different pantheons of Goddesses and Gods, etc. Working with deities involves building a relationship with as working with developing a part of ourselves. Most deities have archetypal representation to different aspects of our own human nature. To work with a specific deity, decide what are you hoping to acheive within yourself? ...and then, decide which deity's portraited charector, history and lessons connect most with what you hope to acheive. No matter what deity you are attempting to create a relationship with, from any culture or traditions, working with the personifications that is associated with or represented by each will draw that particular deity to you from within. A popular way to connect with deities is to create an alter in honour to them. An alter can be designated in honour of any specific deity that you're hoping to connect with.  Offerings can be laid on the alter as a form of respect and acknowledgement specifocally to them. In respect to the submitted question, paying honourage to a Kitsune by perhaps leaving food on an outdoor alter.  The alter can include anything that you feel that a fox (out of respect for a Kitsune) would appriciate. If honoring another entity, you would choose items or objects that reflect that entity. Trust your intuition and follow your instincts when choosing how you would like to honour your deity.  Do some research on the deity you want to work with (or Kitsune) to connect with and find objects and materials that coincide with the personality and charector traits specified.  Create your own relationship with that deity and invite them into your life as necessary. If further interested in more details regarding working with a Kitsune specifically, it may be helpful for you to reach out to one of two types of witches:  Kitsune-tsukai  who works with a fox familiar.  or  Kitsune-mochi  who works with the fox spirit.   These are both considered Japanese fox witches that would know much more about interacting with a Kitsune than I.  In my experience, spirits have presented themselves to me in the form of an animal in several occasions through the synchronous ties of the situation at the time. For example, Cardinals singing at just the right moments after memory of a loved one who's passed. Or similar with mourning doves when sad... Etc. Personally, I've also asked myself within for assistance from time to time. For example, I once felt lost and so, I drew from my human aspect of wisdom and creativity for direction to then suddenly and unexpectedly seem to be guided by two large black birds. Crows who seemed to know the way. For me, it felt so much more than coincidental that I found my way again by following my instincts to go in the direction that the birds flew. Because, it felt right to do at the time. There are many witches that I've heard explain from their experience that often a deity will allow their presence to be known by just feeling them around in support of what ever is happening at the time. For example, when strength seems to just come out of no where. For me, when I need it, and when I feel that support I find a way to show my thanks to that aspect of myself. My best spells are the ones were I invoke my creativity and wisdom and during the working I'm unexpectedly learning to do it a whole new way than I hadn't thought of prior. I totally understand everyone's desire to want to work with deities or other entities. It is my personal opinion that goddesses and gods are representations of the aspects of our own human nature, and can be represented by deities as architypes. The key to doing any energy work, that I've learned, is knowing yourself well enough to be able to recognize your own aspects of human nature and separate them out into symbolic representations of that energy. and the difference to the presence of another's energy, and sensing what's around us. If you can do this, and acknowledge their association with human nature, then I can almost guarantee that you will receive results. It is in hopes that this has provided some sort of clarity or direction for you in your journey.    If there are any other questions related to witchcraft, or Wicca please don't hesitate to submit it at www.AskaGreyWitch.com.  UPDATE : A more recent blog entry has been written expanding in this topic at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/deity-suggestions-and-advice Deity suggestions and advice

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Do you or your family celebrate Hallowe'en ?" Many North Americans celebrate Halloween as a time to scare and be scared, dressing up in goulish costumes or attempt to scare others by creating fictional fun haunted houses, and hand out candy to the trick-or-treaters that walk door to door expecting either a trick or a treat given to them, etc. Skeletons, bats, graveyards, jack-o-lanterns, zombies, and even Hollywood themed witches are common symbols seen in the general public around Halloween, October 31st: In my own personal perspective, this isn't something that is encouraged for my own children to do. However, they do participate. I teach my children to focus on noticing and embracing the seasons' changes, along with the changes that take place in our lives through out. Quite often in society in general, it is assumed and sometimes even expected that everyone partakes in the traditional holiday seasons, including Christmas, Easter, etc. and including Hallowe'en. There is a common misunderstanding around witches and the North American traditions of Hallowe'en that they are one in the same origin, or even related. Witches typically do not celebrate Halloween in the way in which it is widely known. Sure, it may be fun to participate, dress up, or go to a Halloween party. And, many of course do. However, Hallowe'en is not a pagan, witch or Wiccan event, even though partly inspired by such. Halloween is a modernized adaptation of some of the older celebrations that now minimally exist. The celebration that most Wiccans participate in on the evening of October 31st and ending the night of November 1st each year is called Samhain. ...It's pronounced, "sow-win". In it's basic form, it marks the end of the harvest season, and the beginning of Winter, commonly associated with death. This is usually a time of acknowledgement for life and death or celebration of passed loved ones and ancesters. The ways in which I personally celebrate Samhain is to have thrown a large gathering, or party inviting spirits to attend the event. At this gathering, candles are lit for each of those invited to allow the flame to guide them to the party. The food and drinks served are what the invited would have enjoyed eating and drinking when they weren't alive, the music selected are from the choices from what the spirits would have listened too if still with us, and the stories shared from the living who attend are spoken of the memories of our loved ones whom were invited. In essence, through the food, drinks, music and stories shared, the departed actually attend the party amongst the living. And in this way, the dead is celebrated. During such event the spirits are felt and observed listening, sometimes there's interaction with the living party guests. Usually wreath's are created and placed on the front door for protection and jack-o-lanterns are placed outside near the door to lurer away any uninvited spirits, and prevent spirit party-crashers. The living invited guests would be relatives and friends of the invited spirit guests, and can include coven members. It is believed that at the time of year of November 1st that the veil between life and death is the thinnest (given all the dead represented in the season with the coming of darkness, falling of the leaves, the animals going into hiding, and mass death of the plants, insects, animals, etc. that seemingly takes place. It is the eve beforehand which it is celebrated most often. But, not always. The above is just one way in which to celebrate Samhaim, night is the dead, or Hallowe'en, all saint's day, etc. Not all witches or covens celebrate the same ways. There are different traditions, rituals and time periods that can reflect the different traditions and practices. However, There is a general consensus amongst most that the time if year is most important. Samhaim can be considered a witch's New Year by some as it is often considered the time when the Wheel finishes another turn and begins another. The wheel flourishing in its stages of life throughout. Beginning in darkness, coming to light and turning again as the cycle of life also predicts: From Spirit, to Birth, to Life, to Spirit. Also described as, Life and Death and Rebirth. as with from Maiden, to Mother, to Chrone, to Spirit, is as to Fall, to Winter, to Spring to Summer. Blessed is the wheel, so mote it be. Thank you to whom submitted this question. Please feel free to submit your own questions to www.AskaGreyWitch.com Update : More in depth information about Samhain can be found in the more recent blog post https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/the-origin-of-samhain The origin of Samhain.

Question covered in this blog/video: " If your free would you like to join in and have a chat... " Thank you so much to Melissa T. Downard for inviting me into her live talks. A guest grey witch answering questions about tarot spreads. It was my pleasure to be a guest on the Intuitive Experience and I look forward to other possible future collaborations. In this video Melissa and I discuss energy work, mediumship, and I answer questions about tarot and give a free short tarot reading live to a viewer who showed interest while attending the recording. Then Melissa beautifully shares her channeling gifts in closing.  Check it out above! This video is longer than my standard 4-10 minutes length as I just couldn't bring myself to cut out any of the fascinating conversation we had together in case helpful to anyone else who experiences psychic intuition or wants to learn to do tarot for themselves. Thanks again Melissa!!! Melissa T. Downard The Intuitive Experience www.truebeingsoflight.com Bryan Stafford Stafford Tarot www.staffordtarot.com Even though many forms of divination fit into my practice, tarot had been a constant almost from the beginning as I've walked my path as a witch. Given it's connections with intentions and desires, tarot and witchcraft can practically dove-tail together within magical workings. Hope you enjoy the above video! Thanks for watching! Do you have questions about witchcraft? Feel free to submit them here at www.AskaGreyWitch.com

Submitted question covered in this blog: " What is moon water, and what is it used for ?" Charged water is a topic that can throw us down the rabbit hole! And so, this is a great question. I'm honestly surprised that it hasn't been asked sooner. Thank you to whom submitted it! There are many different ways in which water can be charged with intention and making moon water is definately the most popular amongst witches! Moon water is made by literally leaving a dish of water out in the moonlight as the light of the moon itself charges the water. The water is traditionally collected before sunrise and stored in a dark or shadowed location or kept covered away from sun light (which would change the charge of the water). Moon water Charged moon water can be used for a variety of spiritual means. It is often said that the water can empower intentions within workings. I have known witches to drink moon water (clean water charged in moon light during the night and then drank in the morning). The most popular time to make moon water is during a full moon as at that time the moon rises at sunset and falls at sunrise and is illuminated as much as possible allowing a full night's charge under the full moon's light. Moon water increases intuition and connectiveness with self, and is often consecrated to make witch's holy water, which is used in high magick, as well as other spellwork. Each witch uses moon water in their own ways depending n their office and as is associated with the intentions of each. This previous blog entry describes in mid detail how the different moon phases could effect the energy of the charged moon water https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/working-with-the-moon-phases Moon water is just one way in which I have charged and used water. Below are some of the other ways in which water has been collected or charged in preparation for workings that involved blessed water, potions, infusions, etc. to be used for spells Blessed witches holy water Moon water that has been concentrated in ritual in which salt is added and disolved. The ritual involved will effect the energies of the charged water. Witches holy water an be used to purify, cleanse, and protection. To take advantage of the empowering full moon if there is a lunar eclipse and not have it cause unexpected outcomes, you can charge moon water successfully the day before fully illuminated and the day after when the Moon is still at least 97% illuminated. Sun water Water that has been charging in the light in the sun, usually full sun with no to little cloud coverage. Sun water is used with energizing and healing spells, as well as with fertility, love, and power. The different phases of the sun and the seasons of the earth will effect the energy of the charged sun water. Astral water Moon water that has been left out into the sun the next day is made into astral water. This water can be grounding and contains energies of the earth. The surroundings of the water will effect the energy of the charged astral water. Celestrial water Water that has charged under both the sun and a new moon (when the Moon appears in the sky during the day time). Celestrial water is charged under both the moon and the sun simultaneously, thus effecting the energy of the charged water amd can be used for divination, high magick, transformation and beginnings. Storm water Rain that has been collected during a fierce lightning storm is charged storm water. Sometimes used in baneful workings, storm water contains the power and aggression of the storm which is what it is essencially charged by and then that energy can be applied to spell work to empower a particular desire. Snow/ice water Water that has been collected from melting ice or snow to be charged with an intention. Snow offers many shadow workings, can be used to gather (like, into a ball) and let go of emotional wounds (throwing the ball away) and in serenity, calm, peacefulness (watching a snow fall). Can also represent abundance, or spirit. Ice can be used to either blocking or binding temporarily, or for removing obstacles or eliminating a deadlock, etc. Associations may differ depending on geographic. The type of snow fallen and the temperature surrounding will effect the energy of the charged snow or ice. Lake water Water that has been collected from a lake (or from the sea depending on where you live in the world) and charged for a particular purpose, usually healing, prosperity, honesty or knowledge, divination, etc. Associated with the many mysteries of the seas, oceans and great lakes, and can differ in associations depending on where it's collected from, if the water is fresh or salt water, how clean the shore is, how clean the water is, if there are known shipwrecks near, etc. all factors involved will effect the energy of the charged lake water. River, Creek or Swamp water Water that has been collected from a swamp, or dirty puddle, etc. and charged for a particular purpose, usually baneful workings. Usually used in baneful magick suck as heavy curses, etc. Swamp water consists of life and the longer it sits the more life is parishing within the water's container. Eventually, all life ceases to exist within the water resulting in a process of death and decay which is worked with alongside intention into a particular desire. The condition of the water will effect the energy of the charged swamp water. ...and, I'm sure there are others ! However, out of all the different ways water can be concentrated on, moon water made under the full moon is far the most popular and widely used charged water by witches today. Many witches also incorporate other tools and aids with the energetic charging of water. Such as but not limited to herbs or powders, stones or crystals, sticks or grass, peddles or flowers, etc. I personally avoid putting crystals in water as some crystals can be sensitive to moisture, be damaged by water, or can give off toxins that leach into the water, etc. It's very important to fully know the chemistry and properties of all ingredients that go into the moon water, especially if it is intended to be consumed. It's always best to be safe, rather than sorry. If there are any questions, it can be submitted to AskaGreyWitch.com and I'll do my best to help. Thank you for reading my blog!

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Can you change your appearance with just magick ?" This is a great question. Thanks to some popular Hollywood film makings cycling their way though society, it is a common misconception that magick can be used alone to change physical appearances. Can anyone remember that scene in the movie, "The Craft" when the witch in the movie changes her appearance to look like her friend? Nah, not gonna happen. Scene clip from "The Craft" movie Unfortunately, this is as unreal as creating fire from our finger tips - simply untrue. So... The answer is, "No." Unlike what many have commonly observe in movies and television shows, you can't physically change your appearance with just magick. However, what you can do with magick is have influence on how you are perceived by others. Changing the way that others see you is not the same thing as changing your appearance. But, can have a similar outcome or effect. For example, I've used glamour magick to appear younger than I am. I make my own skin salves and potions that work together to not only make me appear more youthful to others. But, also feel more youthful again inside. Most when they meet me are quite surprised if they discover that I'm half a century in age. More about how I create salves was shown in a previous video/blog entry at https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/creating-a-salve Picture taken April 2022, Bryan Stafford. It's been known that other witches have used glamours to appear more attractive, or thinner, or muscular, or prettier, ...or whatever their desired or preferred way to be perceived, or seen as. Quite often Glamour's are used in simple ways in which to accentuate already existing features and qualities that we like in ourselves, and that others may take more notice to. I've also heard of glamour magick be used by witches towards making a better impression. For example, during a job interview to appear more intellectual in hopes to increase their chances of getting hired. Using glamour magick is not as simple as picking out the best outfit or choosing the right tie and belt, or contouring with make-up, or adding blush or lipstick or eye shadow, etc. However, doing it with additional intentions. With successful results with glamour magick, there are no actual physical change in appearance even though others may seem to think they see a change or something different. These types of spells can go hand in hand with compounded workings to focus the manifestations on the one desire. For example, an attractive glamour dovetailed with a love spell. Or another example, incorporating glamour spells into ritual bath magic. A ritual bath can consist of an undisturbed, relaxing bath, using favourite scented bath salts and oils, and listening to music that make you feel strong, powerful and beautiful. Some place a board across a bath tub as a temporary alter, or to journal, etc. After soaking in the bath for 20 minutes step out and allow your body to air-dry nude in front of a mirror. Then, massage your favorite body salves or oils on your skin, or spray yourself in a scented mist, etc. After you’re dried off, look in the mirror and state personal affirmations of strength, power or beauty, such as “I am confident, I am gorgeous, I love myself.” When incorporating water with glamour, the energy within can have a greater effect and the properties of water can be used to help heal physical and emotional wounds. Water not only cleans the physical body. But also, the auric field which can help to calm us, so we can tend to wounds, anger, and anxieties. How you associate with the different oils, mists, salves, herbs, incenses, flower peddles, etc. that are used within the glamour magick being done will effect the energy of the spell. Please note that knowing ourselves and being happy with our true selves is the most powerful aspect of our intentions. Even in doing glamour magick! And so, I feel the need to point out that glamour magick is not intended to actually change anything. It is meant to enhance personal qualities that already exist. The less confident one is while doing a glamour working the less effect it will have (just like with any spell!). Trust yourself! Find both your inner and outer beauty. Is there an existing quality that you would rather be perceived as more by others? Thank you to the one who submitted this question. It is in hopes that this response is helpful. Journey safe, and blessed be. If you have questions please submit them at AskaGreyWitch.com to inspire more upcoming blog posts.

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Is there anything that sounds not be done during a full moon ?" With this inquiry extending from the previous blog entry https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/working-with-the-moon-phases I very much appriciate this question sent in - Thank you! There is also a previous blog entry about charging water for a particular purpose that may be helpful, including mentioning the creation of moon water at https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/charged-blessed-water There are lots of advice online about what to do and to cast spells during the full phase of the Moon. However, there isn't much information about what NOT to do during the full elimination of the moon light. Below I touch base on some simple common suggested do's and don'ts regarding the phase of the full moon based on my own personal interpretations and associations: Suggestions what not to do: Don't allow yourself to be overwhelmed by the inflow of energy from the full moon. Quite often this can happen leading to some of the strange behaviors witnessed by people generally during bright full moons. Be aware and be careful. Don't over react to things happening in your life. At times the energy of the full moon can feel intense without realizing it. Quite often strange behaviours from others are more noticeable during a full moon simply because people underestimate the affects of the moon. Emotions usually run higher than any other moon phase. Don't make harsh or quick decisions. Giving the full moon energy can feel overwhelming to some, try not to feel overwhelmed yourself or try but to be too short with your responses to things. Give yourself some slack and consideration during. Take time to consider the best outcomes. Don't rush to start something new - you had your chance during the last new moon, and will have another chance again in the next new moon. The entire moon cycle (28 days in length) can be an excellent time reference in setting goals, timing spell work, etc. Take the time needed. Don't charge crystals and moon water during a lunar eclipse - My belief is that the transitory energies of an eclipse can cause unexpected charging of unintended energies. For example, it changes the charge in crystals or in the making of moon water under not just a full moon, but one that transitions through all moon phases. Suggestions what to do: Relax, Meditation or channeling. Be in control, seek guidance and retain well being. Let go of built up emotions, heavy feelings or regrets. Know yourself well - all of the full moon phases can be good times to sort out different aspects of shadow workings depending on the associations with each moon phase, including full moons. Cleanse your mental state, your physical space, and personal items. Be aware of and take charge of your surroundings and personal surroundings. Charge tools and crystals under the full moon. Take advantage of the mind energy by using it to empower special items with an intented purpose. Release energy by dancing. Let it go - let yourself go - feel free to move to your own rhythm. Be confident in yourself and your abilities. Celebrate your own accomplishments over the past month. Empower yourself! Know that You are worth it! Be sure to have completed any goals made during the last new moon phase. New moon phases are about new beginnings and are an excellent time to start something new, or set goals for the next 28 days that follow. Half way through that process is the full moon. This makes for an excellent check point half way along the journey to be sure to be on track with the goals that have been previously set. For most witches the most popular phases of the moon to work with are the new moon and the full moon stages. The Moon is considered dark under 3% illumination, where as the Moon is considered full at over 97% illumination. This period of new/full can last up to three days - the day before, the day of, and the day after are acceptable for workings with the particular moon phase. To take advantage of an empowering full moon during an eclipse and not have the eclipse cause unexpected outcomes, you can charge moon water successfully the day before fully illuminated and the day after, when the moon is still full (at least 97% illuminated). For most Wiccans, the Moon is referred to as a goddess symbol (being feminine), where as the sun is a god symbol (being masculine). The Moon herself symbolises our inner selves, our unconscious, the dark, the hidden, the habitual shadows. During coven ritual a drawing if the moon represents channelling the energies of the moon foe a High Priest(ess) to deliver a message of guidance to fellow coven members. In astrology, the Moon represents emotions and the inner shelf. The energy of the zodiac can also play a part in the kind of energy the Moon exhibits. The Moon's position in the sky correlates with the star's constellations in the same way that the sun does, and the corresponding zodiac has it's influences. Always, tust your instincts and follow your intuition.

Submitted question covered in this blog: " What does Samhain mean to you?" Given the time if year (this question was submitted Oct. 30th) it is greatly appriciated!!! And, I hope to post my response by Oct. 31st! Officially, we enter into the dark half of the year and can really feel it on Samhaim - October 31st. From what I understand, most ancient peoples of Europe associated with modern-day Scotland, England, Wales, and Ireland, also known as The Celts, celebrated their Celtic "new year" on the evening of Samhain, pronounced "sow-win". As a Pagan myself, to me, this is the time of the wheel (point in each year) when is the midpoint between summer and winter, and lightness and darkness and is considered a time of celebration of death. It is like a festival of completion to show gratitude for both the labour and "seeds sown" and the bounty of "the harvest" rewarded throughout the second half of the summer season. Simultaneously, it is about traditions which acknowledges the very valuable time of rest, silence, and darkness that the Earth seemed to need in order to revitalize for next summer season and the next year's harvest. While celebrating death may seem somewhat morbid to some, myself as a Seax Wiccan it is a stern reminder that I live in a never-ending world of cycles. Life - Death - Rebirth. This cycle is seen in the natural world everywhere we look from the animals, the plants, to the body itself and is popularly symbolised with the phases of the moon, etc. More information about working with the Moon phases can be found in a previous blog post https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/working-with-the-moon-phases This celebration helps us to learn to welcome and embrace death, as we must be willing to come face to face with it one day. From what I've learned, the word "Samhain" literally translates from Gaelic to english as "Summer's End", Samhain marks the time when the sun (or sometimes described within Wicca as the son of the Goddess) dies and rests in peace until his rebirth during the Winter Solstice. By the end on October, seeds of the harvest lie dormant and hidden deep within the dirt. The leaves on the trees change colour or shrivel and fall, the dark nights grow longer, and the earth starts to freeze and seemingly falls into a deep slumber. Due to this, Samhain was also the night when it was believed that the veil between life and death (this world and the otherworld or spiritworld), was lifted, or is the thinnest, allowing us to connect further with and reunite energetically with our lost loved ones and ancestors. One way that I like to acknowledge and celebrate the dead is to have a designated party to invite specific spirits of passed loved ones to attend as a gathering. More information on a "gathering of the dead" celebration that I traditionally host at Samhain each year is available in this previously posted blog entry https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/gathering-of-the-dead Thank you to whom submited this question and thank you also for reading my blog! More questions can be submitted at AskaGreyWitch.com

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Can you explain what shadow people are?" This is a great question, thank you to whom submitted it, as this is something that I have heard that many people experience - including myself! It should be mentioned right from the start that this topic is NOT at all related to Shadow Work or the Shadow Self. For more info on that, please see this previous blog: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/shadow-work-in-my-opinion There has never actually been any real explanation to what can feel like haunting activities of dark shadows. Shadow figures, sometimes called shadow people are different from spirits of people who have passed on. In fact, many who have seen them say they do not feel that they are human and some clairavoyants consider them non-human in nature. The shadow figures are usually shapeless dark masses that are mostly seen with peripheral vision. Some say they have seen them move between walls, have no human features, wear no clothes. The exception for this is that some say a hat man/hooded figure shadow figures commonly described with this experience. Some also have described their experience as a form of sleep paralysis unable to wake up while being held down by a shadow figure while sleeping. This was similar to my own repetitive interaction with a shadow figure. As I slept, being completely aware of my surroundings, I realized I was actually awake. But unable to move. A shadow encroached closure and closure. The closet it got, the more fear and terror came over me. Each experience it seemed to gain more proximity. Each time as soon as I was able to finally move, my body suddenly responded to my state of mind I was in and I would have to stop myself from screaming as I regained control of my body. This persisted until the final night that I experienced it, just before the shadow reached for me my spirit guide and past ancestor pulled me away and I had a dreamy moment with that ancestor before I woke up. I never experienced sleep paralisys again. This is a rare interaction with shadow figures and most people experience them while awake amongst the darkness at night. People who encounter shadow figures generally explain having a sense of dread. As mentioned they usually have no discernible mouth, noses or facial expressions. Although, there have been suggestions of glowing red eyes with the man with the hat shadow figure. Some are seen as child sized dark humanoids. There have also been experiences of shadow animals, such as a shadow in the form of a cat, or dog. But, with no discernible mouth, nose or eyes. Some people say they seem to be made up of dark smoke or dark steam. Some day that at times when shadow figures move, they appear to be moving on an invisible track from one place to another, such as a toy train on a small scale railroad track. They have been seen to hop or shift in a way almost like a strange dance. They are also known to just be there staring or looking at the floor.  Two commonly mentioned types of Shadow People other than a general shadowed-shape are the ‘hat man’, that looks like they are wearing a fedora hat from the 1930s and is sometimes depicted as having glowing red eyes. And, the ‘hooded figure’, which looks like the shadow person that has a hood over their head. The hood and hat stand out as clothing, and sometimes the figure is described as having a shadowy shape as if wearing an old cloak or drench coat. But, usually they are described as not wearing any clothing at all. Some say they merge with the darkness of natural shadows and their presence can be sensed or felt in the room. These entities are not associated with demons or spirits. The experience mostly explained when it comes to unsettled spirit interaction is that a slight smell similar to sulfuric acid or an electrical smell, or rotten flesh can be present, sounds can be experienced as if coming from everywhere at once, and chills are often felt or a sudden drop in temperature, and sometimes momentarily physically touch or poking sensations can occure. The entire space of air in the affected area will feel thick like fog and the temperature can drastically change. These are not typically expressed from those who experience shadow figures, which generally appear as a shadow (hense the name) and are not usually described as spirialing smoke or mist, nor have detailed features. Some ways in which to deal with shadow figures are: It will probably go away if you just ignore it. If not a shadow figure however, sometimes spirit activity increases because the present spirit may want some attention. Distinguish which you are dealing with based on interaction. Fear can be overwhelming in these situations. And so, try to use light humour during. This may help you to feel more comfortable in the situation, or to remind yourself that you're not in any real danger. If you feel that the figure is trying to tell you something or communicate with you, then it may be a spirit afterall and not a shadow figure. Try to find out what might be the communication and if they're something you may be able to resolve for them. If the entity is aware of you, it just might hear you or listen to you. So, simply ask it verbally to leave. Whether it is a shadow figure, an unattended spirit, etc. Giving it your request to depart from you or from your home quite often works. For a more persistent entity, you may want to attempt a simple lights out spell or cleansing of the space, before attempting more complicated workings such as a banishment, for example, which is most likely not even necessary. Please feel free to reach out if there is anything else on this topic that comes to mind or other that you have questions about. Blessed be, and thank you for visiting www.AskaGreyWitch.com

Submitted question covered in this blog/pictures: " Can you tell me how to create a love potion? " Thank you for this question. As mentioned in previous blog entries the associations of spellwork are different for each, and so, spells are unique to the individual caster, and aswell to the unique situations in which they are too be used for. Although this question is very much appriciated, the answer to it is simply, " No, I can not ". What I can do is provide an example of how I have made love potions myself and you can feel free to change anything that you feel fits with your own associations or for your own practice in order to make it your own love potion. This probably goes without saying: - in most cases. However, it should be mentioned to please be sure all ingredient replacements or alternatives are safe to consume and not poisonous or toxic, etc. The three main ingredients that I use in this example are: Eatable crab apples Sun water A sweetener, like honey, or sugar The tools A large transparent container or bowl A large pot or cauldron A sharp knife A wand or athame This spell works best when the crab apples are individually selected with intention and picked from the tree, with permission. However, it doesn't have to be self harvested and can be purchased from a store. Just be sure to cleanse and charge the ingredients before beginning the spell. If crabapples do not resonate with your personal association with the love involved in the spell, feel free to change it with something that you feel fits for your purpose. For example, pomegranate also makes for a good association for love or sex magick with some witches. Or Apples for finding love relationships, grapes or bergamot for prosperity, etc. Always follow your instincts. Sun water is made with intention similar to moon water, only involves the sun light. See this previous blog regarding charged waters in the craft for more information about this: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/charged-blessed-water Be sure that each fruit is not already claimed by nature as a home or unfinished meal. As long as there are no holes or disturbances in the exterior, there shouldn't be any larvae or insects inside. Cutting them in half first also ensures using the best from what is being used. Using a working knife, cut each fruit across it's width from side to side and not along it's core from top to bottom. This will reveal the hidden pentigram within each crab apple to empower the potion. I like to say a short incantation with each cut referring to me desire for the potion. Be sure that each half looks white and healthy, and is not tainted, bruised, and not starting to decay if not harvested soon before making the potion. It is important to only use fresh fruit in this working. Collect all of the cut crab apple halves into a large pot or cauldron until all of the fruit collected has been sorted, cut and ready to proceed. Pour the sun water over the cut fruit with intention of cleansing and blessing the crab apples with the healing, rejuvenating and attracting powers of the sun. Only fill until the blessed water reaches the top of the crab apples. Do not overfill beyond that so that the top layer of fruit are not totally submerged. Adding too much will affect the quality of the potion and you don't want to overpower the healing associations which will dull down the love associations. It's about finding the right balance of each. Bring to a boil and constantly stir doseil or turning clockwise with a wand to charge your loving desires and will also avoid the fruit from burning on the bottom of the pot or cauldron. Boil until fruit is no longer consistent and the skins and cores can be strained. Now would be the time if adding herbs to the portion with intentions, such as nutmeg to raise spirits and bring good luck, or cinnomon to speed up the effects of the potion, or honey or sugar to further attract, etc. Allow to simmer after for about twenty more minutes, continuously stirring with intention and incantation if you wish. To strain, I personally like to hang the mixture in wrapped thin cloth tied and hung to allow it to stain and drip into a container or bowl below. A cheese cloth works perfectly! However, when not on hand I have also used clean thin material. This technique allows a transparent and smooth texture to the potion. If a colander is used, bits and rind may disrupt its viscosity. Allow to hang until no longer dripping. Avoid squeezing the mixture to get the juice out as this will cause the potion to be less smooth, less viscous and appear darker and more cloudy looking. Which, I personally find effects the association of spells in which it is used. The potion can then be divided into seperate dosage jars once completely stained and can be stored in the fridge for about a week or so. If storing for a longer period of time, the potion can be preserved for longer using a canning process which will allow it to remain fresh for about a year or so. That's about it!!! Ways in which this love potion can be used are giving it to a current lover or potential lover to drink in hopes that they are influenced by your intended desire. Can be added to other's drinks, food recipes, desserts, etc. that are intended to be consumed by the person in which will have influence from the potion's set intention. It should be mentioned that this is not a mind control potion nor will it have any effect on someone's free will. It empowers existing or potential love. However, can be used as an ingredient to stronger love spell workings. Thank you for reading my blog! If you have any further questions about this potion, or other magickal workings, please don't hesitate to submit it to www.AskGreyWitch.com

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Do you have any kind of spell/chant to make me gain motivation and energy in the craft again?" This is a great question and has importance in my opinion because this is a common occurrence from what I understand from other witches. But, especially experienced by those who have started out their journey in the craft and feel as though it begins to fizzle out. Thank you for submitting this question! Feeling 'burnt out' in magick can happen when one starts to notice feeling very tired, worn out and don't have a lot of motivation to do shadow work, spells, rituals, or other magickal workings. If this happens to you, you may need to slow down, take a break, and re-energize. My advice would be to look back at your own accomplishments so far in the craft, and be proud of who you are, and how far you've come. I can guarantee that you've taken steps on you path away from where you started, and moving you forward to where you are today - reflect on that journey and take a moment to celebrate yourself! Taking up a form of divination or scrying can also be helpful to analyse the inner self, also known as the shadow, from which we can learn more about ourselves and get to know it true ambitions and intentions that are kept hidden from everyone else. Some divination techniques that come to mind are ink, water or black mirror scrying, automatic writing, rune casting, tarot reading, numerology, pendulum use, tea leaf reading, divine meditation, astrology, shamanic journeying, bone reading, Celtic Ogham, stone divination, etc. Each divination practice connects with your intuitive senses to pull out messages from deep within. This can be benifitial when feeling overwhelmed and need a better understanding, or advice, a second opinion, etc. Visit this previous blog entry for more information on shadow work: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/shadow-work-in-my-opinion Affirmations may also be helpful as a minor chant that can help to bring in powerful motivation and a sense of renewed energy. Simplify! Spells and rituals so not need to be overly complicated. By simplifying it down to the bare associations of your intention, you're allowing for a more direct focus in your workings. When feeling tired, sometimes the smallest ritualistic expressions can be the most moving. Be sure to utilize the energies surrounding, and can be found in nature, spirit work, within associated spellwork ingredients, etc. Do not totally rely on your own energy alone to power a spell completely. Also, learning to create and work with energy spell recharging or "batteries" can also be helpful to maintain the charge of some magickal workings that are consistent or ever manifesting. Everlasting protections, for example. One thing to always keep in mind is that magickal workings don't need to be elaborate or complicated. Something as simple as stirring intention for the day into your morning coffee or tea can help set your mindset from thereafter. If you’re finding yourself feeling tired, overwhelmed, or burnt out, then a relaxing bath ritual will help you refill your cup and get grounded again, as explained in this other blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/ritual-baths Spend some time honouring yourself. Perhaps a self-love ritual bath would help. Witchcraft is a study. Even professors take sabbaticals! Cut yourself some slack. When you're ready, you'll immerse yourself once again. Thank you for reading my blog. Further questions or requests for more information can be sent to greywitchbryan@gmail.com or at www.AskaGreyWitch.com

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Is witchcraft an under-represented subculture?" In my opinion, yes. Even though witchcraft is becoming more understood by so many, shared lots online and with Wicca a fast growing religion. It is very under-represented and very misunderstood because of it. However, even though many covens and independent practitioners practice in secret, there is an even more of a massive under-representation amongst witches... Males. I see this online and in other media even though we're everywhere. Male witches exist! And yet, witchcraft is still viewed as a female dominating subject.  Due to this, many male witches don't make themselves known as witches, or don't identify as witches even though they are in fact doing witchcraft, or identify differently, such as Warlocks, Wizards, or Magicians, etc. As you may already know, witches in general still face stereotyping and discrimination basically from just being who we are. Canadians have a reputation of being overly polite, honest, and respectful. etc.  And so, this can be so highly misunderstood as a Canadian Grey Witch myself. This is an under-represented type of witch that many don't talk about. Those who find balance by learning to work with energies of all kinds. Both positive and negative, both light and dark, healings and curses, etc. We work in the "grey" areas, so to speak. ... Hense identifying as "grey" witches.  This does not mean, however, that grey witches are 'bad', or 'evil', eh? As some sometimes suggest. I believe this stereotyping is the main reason the grey witch is under represented. Out of not wanting to be stereotyped as the typical evil witches of Hollywood. More information about the Homewood stereotypes forced in witches can be found in a previous blog entry:   https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/hollywood-misconceptions Grey witches are under-represented because they face alot of criticism, stereotyping, and are actually excellent at assisting others (witches or non witches) with challenging situations, by knowing how to manifest to nutralize energies.  For example, creating a positive outcome from a very negative situation.  Or, another example as bringing down or toning down another's infatuation. Etc. It's an energetic turn of the table, so to speak.  As someone who has eventually made a living from within my own witchcraft practices, living in Guelph Ontario Canada, i have faced many stereotypes from the community, local and abroad (online) projected onto me.  Where I draw this attention is partly due to the fact that I operate and like to spread the word of two websites:  To help break common stereotypes about witches, i created this site www.askagreywitch.com where I answer questions asked to be directly, either from my website or from online social communities.  Helping to provide for my family living, i also created another site www.staffordtarot.com where I teach and do workings, castings and multiple forms of readings, including a variety of tarot for a fee.   By simply advertising my tarot business, I have been heckled, or recieved attempts to insult, etc. by some who have come across one of my online offers and just did not agree with what I'm doing or how I identify myself. There has even been one person whom I've never even met tried to tell me tarot readings in general were a scam... absolutely not!!! I have several 5 star testimonial postings listed at: https://g.co/kgs/Azyp3Q I believe that the above happens due to the lack of learning and misunderstanding because of under representation in the community and beyond. There ARE pockets of those who do understand in the general public. Some of those who are accepting, or find and read my blog, or give positive feedback or consideration or book my services. I'm very grateful and feel blessed to be able to share that part of myself and my spirituality to help others in such an impactful way. Thank you so much for this question. And, for reading my blog allowing me to share my perspective. If there are any other questions or would like to share your own opinions with me, please feel free to submit them at www.AskaGreyWitch.com

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Why do you call spells "workings"? Thank you for reading through my blog, and for submitting this question from the website. As pointed out with this question's submission, through out this website, I do say quite a few times that spells are magickal workings. Below is what I mean by this: From my own perspective, the term "workings" is like an umbrella term that can involve anything that is done leading up to a ritual or spell, as well as the symbolic actions during. Another way to describe it, is that it means any 'work' done towards a spell, or to achieve an intended goal or outcome. So, a magickal working, also known as "spellwork" are the workings which are done in the moment of a spell casting to represent the intention involved to acheive the desired outcome of that particular spell. Whereas, the term "spell", for me describes the process of focus for that manifestation. It's like a description of the symbolic focus used to bring an intention into reality. For example: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/making-a-love-potion In this previous blog about making a love potion, it gives examples of the workings involved in one way that I have used to create a love potion. Another example of a working in preparation for spellwork would include this other previous blog about making black salt, or cleansing items beforehand: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/smoke-cleansing-and-black-salt as well as other blogs from the "Spells & Magick" and "Workings" categories of the blog. What these blogs mentioned above do not provide, are the actual spell components, such as ritual involved, specific incantations to use, or other symbolic gestures representing the seperate desires involved. This is because intention and desire need to be specific, and no one knows your own specific intention and desires than yourself. This is way it is ultimately up to each witch to find their own ways from their unique practices in which to express themselves in their magick. Since true intention powers spellwork, it is not up to me to tell others what their intention should look like, how to symbolize representation of someone else's intentions. What i can do, and do in my blogs is provide a starting point for others to create their own unique ways of working in the craft. The practices of each witch are unique and personal. The workings of each witch may look very different from eachother. And yet, have similar desired outcomes. These differences can also balance beautifully working together to form a collaborative approach to magick, such as within covens. Given how personal our own self expressions and desires can be as individual practitioners of magick, and the vulnerabilities that can be involved, it is no wonder most covens feel a need to continuously operate with such discretion and secrecy. Or for that matter, why solitary practitioners remain keeping to themselves. Thank you, again, for reading my blog. If you have questions along your own journey, about setting up a unique practice for yourself, or just discovering your own sense of magick, please don't hesitate to reach out for support. Merry part and many blessings.

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Have you ever regretted casting a spell? " This is a very curious question, and an interesting one. Thank you for this submission and being upfront in your question. Personally, I can honestly answer, "No, I do not hold regret in my magick". This is widely due to the fact that before casting any spell, I've already done my shadow work around doing it, as well as listened to my intuition and followed my instincts through out. The main purpose of this process that I use for my own spell creations helps me to ensure the spell is being done for the right reasons and will not be regrettable afterwards. Shadow work is excellent for planning and thinking through all of the components and reprocautions that may be involved with any particular working. More information about shadow work is available in previous blog entries: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/shadow-work-in-my-opinion Shadow work in my opinion and https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/shadow-work-expanded Shadow work expanded in further Researching knowledge beforehand can lead to unexpected experiences gained in order to obtain the knowledge being sought out. This can be done before and after the spell, and has been instrumental in my considerations involving the Law of Three. Basically, the Law of Three is the belief that what ever energies are sent out, come back to the sender three times fold. In other words, send out positivity and get lots of positivity back. However, if sending out negativity, understand that lots of negativity may be headed your way! Considering all aspects of a spell and the possible consequences are important to me to feel confident and have no regrets. There is alot of energy spent that goes into spellwork, and so, the big question that I'm sure to answer with this line of thought mentioned above is, ' is it worth doing in the first place ?', or ' could it rather be achieved in the mundane instead?' Some things to consider for spells that seem to backfire or for unexpected outcomes: Do your shadow work!!! Often the journey is the lesson itself. Not all spells are for the faint at heart. Expect the unexpected. Not all paths are simple to walk. Not all lessons are easy to learn. Trust your instincts, and follow your intuition. Listen to your guides for direction. Blessed be. Thank you for visiting my website and for reading my blog at AskaGreyWitch.com Please feel free to submit your own questions for a chance for the answer to be featured in a new blog entry. It may help to break some of the misconceptions that exist out there about witches, witchcraft or Wiccans and Wicca. - Take good care always!

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Do you believe in and work with spirits?" As mentioned in previous blog entries, i beleive in energy, and yes - I do work with the carried energy of past loved ones in a variety of ways in my practice, including assistance with manifestation, looking for guidance, requesting synchronoustic signs, or receiving messages connected to a sitter of my readings. It is my honest belief that anyone and everyone can communicate and work with the connections within. First of all, I've always honoured and paid offering to ancesters and do have several ancestral alters around my home for me to connect with, visit or seek guidance from. As shown in: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/personal-alters about some of my personal alters. There are times in my practice that, as a psychic medium, I often feel like someone's energy explores me out. I can be on my way of a typical day and when I have dropped my guard a presence has come to me with a message that i usually don't understand. But, I feel that I must remember. In the moment I often feel an urge to write the message down in hopes of remembering it to eventually delivering it. For example: a specific version of a lyric or song. Either later that day or in following days I will be approached by someone that I can tell the message is for them, or, I mention the song for example. The message is always understood and very relevant to a passed loved one of the person the message is delivered to. For example: they thought of that passed loved one the last time THAT song was recently played on the radio. There have been a variety of examples, messages, directional guidance, moments of hope or faith created, and closure that I've had the privilege to deliver to the living. Mediumship has always been something that I have ablidged to do upon request within tarot readings while I have attend in person events or festivals and during private reading sessions. I even offer special tarot spreads using mediumship to request to assist me in the ordering of the cards and using the messages of the tarot to deliver general messages. Professionally, I have sometimes felt approached by a energetic presence first and then afterwards a new client will request to book a mediumship reading. Other times, it's not until I've met my client that I'm able to sense and connect with the energies carried around them. During a mediumship reading session with me, there is no expectation to share any information beforehand, no need to bring any objects, nor pictures with you, etc.  We will simply meet, i will explain what it is that I do, and then I will take a moment to connect with the energies around you.  Whilst requesting confirmations through out, I will interpret the messages that come through. Once validated, questions can be asked. Quite often the messages wont make sense to me. However, make absolute sense to the sitter of my readings.  Messages often seem to be what is needed to be delivered by the spirit themselves. Although I'm usually open to receiving messages commonly, in my personal life, I've also had to create boundaries for myself. By doing so, I no longer feel ambushed by the energetic intersections from others, nor overwhelmed by the messages and emotions involved, nor distracted by the interactions away from my own life's responsibilities. This previous blog entry includes a video of when I was invited to be a guest on The Intuitive Experience channel: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/guest-on-the-intuitive-experience-online-live-chat where Melissa T. Downard from True Beings of Light and myself get into conversation about mediumship. Since taking the mediumship program at truebeingsoflight.com I have been able to build on my ability to receive specific messages, be more confident with what I'm sensing and also create better spiritual boundaries for myself. When I became confident and grounded in what I've already been doing with mediumship, I then decided to expand mediumship into its own category of service on my professional website www.staffordtarot.com which also provides more information about mediumship readings. Thank you for reading my blog and submitting questions to AskaGreyWitch.com if you have further questions or would like to request clarity on anything that I've written about, please don't hesitate to ask.

Submitted question covered in this blog: "How can divination be improved upon?" One way that I try to improve my divination experience is to use a divination aid, such as a focus or centre point, grounding and cleansing, meditation, and by drinking a divination potion or tea blend beforehand. Thank you for submitting this inquiry. Personally, towards this purpose, I like to harvest dandelion roots in the spring time. One of the most important awarenesses when harvesting any plants is how far away the plant is growing from sources of pollution, such as traffic and roadways, or factories, etc. Plants absorb minerals as well as chemicals found within the dirt. And so, be sure to harvest plants from noncontaminated soil. Harvesting this root can be a little tricky to do. It is important to be careful not to snap or break the root when pulling the plant from the ground. Or, it may need to be dug out depending. There are special gardening tools specifically made to allow easier harvesting. However, are not really required once you get the hang of it. The roots are not the only useful part of this plant as the leaves and flowers are very edible, contain vitamins and the flowers can also be made into a dandelion syrup with healing, prosperity and empowerment properties. For this blog, I'm going to focus on just the root. Once the dirty is removed, the root can be collected with the thin brown rind attached, and then cut into small 1 cm length segments (about 1/3rd of an inch) and then left to dry out. Can be laid out in a sunny location or a dehydrater machine can be used to speed up the drying process. Tea made with dandelion root tends to hold a strong nutty flavour and aroma. If prefer more of a coffee taste and experience, the root segments can be oven roasted at a low temperature for about 40 minutes. Once completely dried out, the dandelion root can be added to tea blends or steeped in their own. The roots can be stored all year round in a sealed container placed in a cool, dry and dark location. A teaspoon of dried root can be added to other tea blends. It would be my preference to drink the potion or tea right before initiating divination, no matter the technique being used. Of course, you can drink the solution slowly during the divination practice depending. No matter the method or technique or association that you use to do divination, always trust your intuition and follow your instincts. There is no right or wrong way to connect with the divine. Some of the different divination techniques that I am familiar with are: Automatic Writing or Scribbling Crystal Ball Scrying Rune Castings Charm Castings Tea Leaf Readings Astrological Analysis Water Scrying Tarot Readings Oracle Card Pulls Pendulums Wittan Sticks Black Mirrors Deity Divination, such as during ritual, Spirit Divination, such as using a spirit board, ...and there are so much more available! Divination and Witches I've also often heard about a bit of a stereotype around this when it comes to witches. Witches are definitely known for the use of divination techniques and tools, such as Tarot for example which is one of the more popular forms of divination used. However, there are many types of divination that some witches (not all) explore as part of their ongoing practices. It should be mentioned that it is not expected that in order to be a witch that one would need to know all or one or any of the many divination techniques, as some seem to believe. Simply doing divination does not make someone a witch. It is in hopes that this has helped to consider ways in which to improve your divination practices.

Submitted question covered in this blog: " How do pendulums work? " A pendulum is really any object of query that is suspended and hangs in a way that it can freely swing back and forth, side to side and around, etc. It is a tool of your own intuition. And so, reading the answers and trusting in its use and acknowledgement is key for it to continue to communicate well. Be sure to be grounded beforehand, confirm yes/no before asking your question, and trust your intuition to use the pendulum to guide you. You should feel confident in your pendulum to answer accurately. Avoid asking repetitive questions to a pendulum to see how it gives answers the same question. Because, just like in any relationship, if you do not trust and accept in the guidance offered, the pendulum will stop guiding you efficiently. If you find that your pendulum just isn't giving accurate answers, cleanse it and start to rebuild an energetic relationship with it. Some pendulums are created specifically for this use and can be purchased at most metaphysical shops and stores. However, purchasing a pendulum for your use is not entirely necessary. A pendulum can be made from home made objects and string, or a chain and pendant, or even with the use of hanging chime bells, etc. No matter the intention being charged into the pendulum in order to work with your intuition, can usually only give Positive, Negative or Unknown suggested answers. Many may phrase these answers as, Yes, No, or Unsure when asking a specific question. The proper way to ask a question to a pendulum is to be sure the question has a close-ended answer.  For example, the question can be answered with a yes, or a no, or maybe, or unsure.  Avoid asking open ended questions that requires more information than can be simply affirmed.  For example, "Where will I be in five years?" Unless mapped out the possible choices on a pendulum chart, the answer may be too complicated for a pendulum to answer directly.   As long as you are prepared to receive the answer, I personaly do not believe that there are "wrong" questions to ask. To start, take a few deep breaths, and then hold the chain or string or chain of the pendulum from the end so that the pendulum's weight pulls it straight, centred and as still as possible. The weighted object must hang suspended and freely in order to accurately translate messages. Ask the pendulum to "show a 'YES'", and while holding that in your thoughts run your other hand's fingers down the string or chain starting at the top and working your way down to the pendulum weight charging with the intention of your question. Then, hold that same hand underneath the pendulum and allow it to hang still and freely. The way that it stays to swing is how it will answer positive to your question. So the same thing again only this time ask the pendulum to "Show a 'NO'", and notice how it swings differently - this is how it will answer negative to your question. Now, do this one last time. However, ask the pendulum the question you want the answer too. Watch carefully how the pendulum starts to swing and notice which answer the pendulum is trying to give you. If it swings in a way that was not described, the answer may be unsure or unknown at this time. The first types of pendulums were made by tying a string to any weighted object, such as a wedding ring, for example, and using it to determine answers about love, marriage, child barring, fortune and prosperity, etc. In this example, taking the wedding ring of a pregnant wife and hanging out in front of the women's emerging belly to ask whether she will give birth to a boy or a girl. If the pendulum swings one way, it's a girl, swings another way then, it's a boy. Over the years pendulum's have become a powerful divination tool steered and directed by energy. It can not only be used to connect with our own energy and intuition. Many practitioners use pendulums to locate lost or misplaced items, or to find direction. But also, reading the energy of others' energy as well. This is why some mediums also sometimes are known to use pendulums as a communication tool to connect with the energy of spirits of their sitters' departed loved ones. Be sure to ask your pendulum to show you how it will answer "yes, no, or unsure" before charging it with your initial question to be sure you read the pendulum the way intented. Also, pendulums can be used to connect with spirits or ancestors, etc. - Yes. However, in my experience this usually requires connecting with the spirit beforehand and asking them to manipulate the pendulum with their choices, and shouldn't be happening without your intention to do so. There are also layouts and pendulum charts available where as you hold a pendulum above it and watch what options the pendulum swings towards or points too in the chart or specified layout. Thank you for visiting my website, and for reading my blog. Any inquiries can be submitted to AskaGreyWitch.com if there are any questions or need to clarity further. I am always happy to help. ...

Submitted question covered in this blog: " About a freezer spell can I freeze someone for more than one person at a time? " Thank you for submitting this as it's an interesting question to talk about., And it's a topic that hasn't been asked about as of yet so far. 🙂 First, I feel that I should express what a freezer spell is for those who are curious. It is a kind of defensive magick. A binding is a type of a spell that is often used to prevent another person from causing harm to others, or themselves. One way is to keep repeating an incantation while you do a working that is associated with preventing or stopping someone from doing something or causing harm. The working can be anything that you associate with binding. The more personally satisfying to you - the better. It can be as simple as wrapping someone's picture with a black ribbon while you chant the incantation (symbolically binding them with your intention) Or, it can be as complicated as you feel necessary. Just be sure that what you do is a meaningful process. Follow your instincts and trust your intuition. There are many different kinds of bindings or different ways to bind someone. Which, a freezer spell is one. The common intention of a freezer spell is to 'stop someone's actions' from causing harm. It's meant to stop someone in their tracks and putting them 'on pause' momentarily. Like, "freezing" them in place (symbolically) for the time being until something else can be figured out on how to deal with that particular person. Basically, you create an association with a person which can either be via a picture, or a drawing, or a logo, or a sigil, or a petition, or a poppet, or any other tag lock associated to the target of the spell. Once this magickal tag is created (and association established and activated). Then, it is placed in water (I like to use moon water or sun water depending on the situation) into any freezer safe container will work, even perhaps in a ziplock bag. Fill with water only until completely submerged. Then, place in the freezer (or outside during a cold winter) with intention to slow down and stop the efforts or goals is the target while the water freezes to ice. This can even be done in a puddle or small pond outside right before temperatures drop in the winter season turning the puddle or small pond to ice. When the weather warms melting the ice the target would be then released from the influence of the spell. Or, by taking out of the freezer allowing it to melt or smashing the ice would release the target from the binding and also sets the target free from the influence of the spell. In my opinion smashing the ice releasing the target quickly may result in a quick return of the problem at hand and may require being ready with your next course of action right away. Using more force then needed to smash the 'cage' of ice may briefly shock or stun the target within the situation. Use your intuition and follow your instincts. Freezer spells do not cause harm itself and are not meant to be perminant. It's often a temporary quick solution to offer opportunity to provide more time to think, decide, contemplate or resolve what to do next. Quite often this can lead to the preparation of more compound or intricate magick to be used further. Other times, a momentary pause is all that's required. This obviously would be depending on the situation causing the need for a freezer spell to be used in the first place, of course. Back to the submitted question, more than one target can be implemented into a freezer spell if the actions wanting to stop of each are the same or similar intentions involved. For example, two people together committing the same offence. You can also do separate freeze bindings for each target individually so that each can be released separately when ready to deal with each person appropriately. From that point on, different magickal workings further could be applied to each person separately as seen fit, if necessary. An entire group can also be incorporated into a freezer spell by using the group's commonly used name or title, such as an organization or business, government department, group proceeding, etc. However, please keep in mind that the actions to bind or "freeze" would need to be cooperative amongst the entire group. In other words, the focus would be on the collaborative effort or goal of the entire group all together. This can require much more focus and intention to pull off. But, it is do-able. Sometimes, when dealing with an entire team of people, simply freeze binding the lead or leader of the targeted group is sufficient. I'd like to reiterate that a freezer spell is not intended to cause harm or destruction in someone's life and (in my view) os not considered a baneful working. It is usually done as a self defence, intended to hold someone back or to take a break from someone's behavior for a moment. It can often give time to rethink a strategy on how to handle a situation that has unexpectedly materialized and may need to be energetically rebalanced in a witch's favour. Please reach out to me via greywitchbryan@gmail.com or www.askagreywitch.com if I can make this entry any clearer or provide further example of a freezer spell. Other questions can also be submitted. Thank you for reading my blog!

Submitted question covered in this blog: " Can you please share an example of a love spell? " Absolutely! There are so so many many different examples of spells online or share within popular social media these days. It's important with any spell work that it's ritual and influence feels personally satisfying to you as a practitioner of your own magick. With spells that are provided by others, always implement your own style, intention, and practices into the work to make the workings your own. Beforehand, I like to really contemplate the reasoning behind doing any spell, and staying true to inner self's desire. But, especially with spells that involve love. In my opinion, shadow work can be hugely instrumental in being sure spells are not done unnecessarily, and helps avoid spells leading to undesirable results or outcomes. In case helpful: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/shadow-work-in-my-opinion shadow work in my opinion. Love spells and potions are by far the most popular sought out magickal workings amongst new witches than any other form of magick. This example below is intended to bring two people together to form a strong loving solid connection. It does not work well for brief encounters or quick love affairs, etc. Here is one simple example in hopes helpful: To begin, you'll need a long ribbon red in colour (or can be white. If protection is in order, use black, etc) and create two poppets or representations of the two people to bring together. One of them may represent yourself, if you wish and the other of another specific person, or a yet-to-be-known person with specific qualities. Add those specific qualities into the second poppet doll. Some examples of poppet dolls can be seen in this video: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/working-with-poppets working with poppets. To which, this spell was also mentioned. Activate each poppet to be associated as the people that each represents. Consecrate it, Bless it, or do as per part of your practice. When the poppet feels ready, it can then be used as a tag in the spell. Lay the ribbon long and straight, placing a doll at each end of the ribbon. While envisioning in your mind these two people happily together, slowly move each doll along ribbon towards eachother. Continue to visualize their happiness. If you're one of the people represented, then be in that moment of happiness to which comes from coming together with the other person represented. Incantations can be spoken to help focus the intention. When the poppets meet in the center of the ribbon, the ribbon can then be wrapped around them and both left to sit together 'wrapped in eachother's love' - not to be disturbed. The length of time of this is up to the practitioner. If intending a marriage to form, tie the ribbon ends together binding the poppets together, and place somewhere to be left undisturbed. Personally, with this type of working in a spell, if the poppets are made from biodegradable materials only, like stick/vine poppets for example, I like to place somewhere undisclosed, in a forest, amongst nature. Somewhere where they won't be discovered and in a place I think would make the perfect "cabin" location, or get-away spot for these two loving people (poppets) to be alone and together. After 'hiding' the working, I would spend some time in that area thinking about the offering, or requesting assistance from ancesters, the universe, Deity, Fae, or whatever part of your practice. After leaving, I would not return to the location. It is in hopes that this example is helpful. Thank you for reading my blog! If you're curious, please feel free to submit your questions to AskaGreyWitch.com

Submitted question covered in this blog: " How do you know what kind of witch you are? " It's important to note that each and every witch is different from the next.  There are just as many types of witches, as there are witches .  Each is unique in the ways of the craft.  The dictionary definition of a practice is the customary, habitual, or expected procedure or way of doing of something or to perform (an activity) or exercise (a skill) repeatedly or regularly in order to improve or maintain one's proficiency. As much as there are types of and many more "lables" for witches, this doesn't actually matter ! Try to setup a practice that is personally meaningful and spiritually satisfying to you.  If you see a ritual or spell described here on www.askagreywitch.com please feel free to change and manipulate the workings so that it personally fits best with your own associations and intentions.  What works for me may not work for you in the same ways, and vice versa. We all have our own experiences in life which gives us all different associations. No matter what your path is in the craft, we can all do simular magick in our own ways.  Research and Experience are really key to helping any practitioner of magick to figure out what would most likely be useful and work best for them.   Practices can look like what ever you want it to.  The whole point is to create habits and rituals that better ourselves in our skills and self development.  For example, someone who primarily works with plants, their practice may involve a regularly done routine of harvesting and gathering herbs to make potions and teas that assist with health or some day to day tasks alongside the maintenance and care given to the plants and trees around them.  They may consider themselves a 'green witch'. Here is a brief example: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/green-witchcraft green witchcraft. Or, With a practice revolving around spirit work, ancestors, or other ways of bridging the veil between lofe and death, one may consider themselves a 'hedge witch'. Here is a brief example: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/spirit-mediumship spirit mediumship or https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/ouiji-boards spirit boards. Having experience with psychic influence, forsoothing, divination, etc. some might identify as an astral witch or 'psychic witch', Some examples: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/runes-and-tarot rune and tarot reading. ... Some identify as ceremonial witches, astro or cosmic witches, kitchen witches, crystal witches, hearth witches, sea witches, sex or love witches, ...hereditary, secular, solotary, coven-based... And, there are many many more lables and ways in which a witch may identify themselves or clarify the realm of their practice in the craft. Each of the examples mentioned can also intertwine into other realms of magick depending on intention and traditional focus used. There are non Wiccan practitioners that follow folk traditions which also vary depending on the area, country, traditions, etc.  Much folk magick is passed down through generational teachings. However, in recent years has become much more accessible to the general public through books, websites, YouTube channels, etc.  There are Wiccan practitioners that follow religious practices and guidelines in which involve magickal workings within the traditions, rituals and customs.  There are also some who have interesting mixes of folk practices and religious beleifs and traditions. There are even many eclectic magickal practitioners and eclectic religious practices. In these cases, a witch borrows from multiple sources and realms of magick to construct a new, unique practice that personally speaks to them specifically.  There are also chaos magickal practitioners who never develops a personalized practice. In this case, what applied yesterday may be irrelevant today - All that matters today is what is used today.   Eclectic and Chaos practitioners are never confined by the concept of tradition.  So, if there are just as many types if witches as there are witches, then, how would one know what type of witch they are? If this matters to you, FIRST: walk a path in the craft that you are very comfortable with and that speaks to you! Setup a practice surrounding what you do so that it is personally satisfying. THEN, take a look at your practices and formed traditions, and do research to determine the type of witch in which you can identify with. Do not try to fit into a specific type. Certainly, don't allow someone else to tell you what kind of witch you are . Just be yourself, and the rest will determine itself. It should also be mentioned that one witch can work in many different realms of magick and many areas of the craft that they resonate with. Also, a witch may move through different seasons and transcend realms of magick throughout their lifetime. More about the type of witch that I personally identify with can be read on the about me page at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/greywitchbryan Trust your instincts, and follow your intuition. It is in hopes that this is helpful - Blessed be.

Submitted question covered in this blog : " What is and not supposed to be discussed with other witches? " Thank you so much for submitting this question as it is interesting, and very true, that there are certain things in which a witch tends to keep to themselves - even from other witches! And, there could be many different reasons for this. First, practices in witchcraft are extremely personal. As mentioned in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/what-type-of-witch-are-you What type of witch are you? The more personally satisfying a spell is to to the practitioner the more likely manifestation will occur. The more we associate with and resonate with the workings, the more truely we connect with our inner desire and intentions to have that desire fulfilled. Since we all have our own unique experiences and associations in life, etc. It can sometimes be difficult to understand another witch's incantation of a spell, expectation of ritual, components of workings, and other processes of their magick. Secondly, making all of your personal practice aware and available to just anyone can leave a witch to feel vulnerable. Take protections, for example. Knowing how a witch fully protected themselves can assist in maliciousness or causing influence from a curse or hex. If you know how one protects themselves, some baneful workings can strategically work around those protections. This is one reason why it's encouraged to use layers of protection. Also, as mentioned in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/protections Protecting yourself further. For thos reason, witches tend to only share certain information with very trusted individuals or fellow coven members. A very important reason many witches keep much of their magick to themselves, is to preserve it's special meaning and personal intentions. Given the mentioned above, many witches believe that in sharing all of their personal rituals and traditions can leave much open to mis-interpretation. Or, mis-understandings, etc. This can dull-down the influence in which their magick may have. So, in other words, to have less negativity up against you by avoiding negative opinions of others from not sharing with them about your practice. No one knows you more than you. Associations come from within and our life experiences. And so, you are the only one who can fully understand your associations and symbilisms, etc. In online social communities, some novice witches often post pictures of their results to egg cleansing spells, or lemon cleansing spells, or candle wax spells, cord cutting spells, etc. asking other witches for their interpretation. This should also be avoided . Simply, no one else but you can really fully read your own divinatory ritual. If you're not confident enough to read the results of your own divination working, then you may not be ready to attempt such a spell as of yet, in which more research or learning may be required. Don't give up trying to do your own workings until your confident in what you're doing. Always, trust your instincts, and follow your intuition. And lastly, witches may not even reveal that they're practitioners in the first place to avoid receiving unnecessary ridicule, judgement, or discrimination from others who may not understand or have bias about what it means to be a witch. After all, some still live in fear for being disclosed as a witch. Whether co-workers, family members, neighbours, or sometimes even close friends, etc. close relationships can be massively affected and lives drastically changed by "coming out of the broom-closet" unintentionally. One should not "out" a witch or disclose a practitioner without their approval. Not yet even mentioning the learning of the history involving the witch trials, and other brutal attacks on witches in the past can leave one to want to protect themselves further by staying sucluded, or solitary and practice very discretely. As shown in this previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/hollywood-misconceptions "Hollywood" Misconceptions, there are still so many misconceptions of witches these days that many witches rather stick to themselves than to risk feeling prosecuted or criticized for being who they are themselves. For this reason, many covens have operated in secrecy and some still do. In these cases, coven members are not usually permitted to talk about coven workings or coven business outside of the circle of coven members. This is sometimes done for the protection and saftey of its members. Thank you for reading my blog, it is in hopes helpful. If you have any questions that I can answer from my own personal perspectives, please feel free to submit them at AskaGreyWitch.com Blessed be.