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  • "Why start this blog/channel?"

    While I am sorting out the technology and getting the upcoming video ready to be posted, I thought I'd answer a simple question to begin: “Why start this blog or channel?” While exploring online myself, I have become increasingly aware of how many practitioners of energy work that I've found online are women and how little representation there is of male practitioners. This sparked the idea that maybe I could share some of my own perspective, thoughts and opinions on a practice, traditions and related topics that might interest or help others. Along the way maybe I can help to clear up some of the misunderstandings or misconceptions that seem to still exist today. For starters: the term "witch" means "the wise". It is actually non gendered and so can mean either a man, or a woman, or non binary, etc. Really, anyone! Sometimes known as ”cunning folk”, can be any age, or work at any job, be of any orientation, class, ethnicity, can even be a part of any religion or belief. There is such a thing as a Catholic witch, for example. Witches are not confined to the Wiccan religions of today. Witchcraft is an expression of intention and is usually guided by a form of ritual. Therefore, it's my personal opinion that what is often referred to as "magick" is neither good or evil, light or dark, white or black, etc. it just is . It is the ultimate intention of the individual caster that is either noble or not, etc. Secondly, some don't seem to realize that Witchcraft and Wicca are not the same thing. Wicca is usually considered a religion that involves magickal practitioners. Not all witches are Wiccan. However, most Wiccans are witches. Some of the biggest misconceptions that I have personally experienced come from hollywood fictional ideas that are showcased in stories, movies and television series of what a witch is. I am referring to the stereotypical view of a witch must be an old ugly women, with green skin, has warts and orange or silver hair, pointed black hats, able to levitating or fly on a broom, throw fire from one's hands, or whatever imagination one may be entertained with. It's great entertainment, but that's all it is... Entertainment. Even now a days, modern shows that involve witchcraft still are extremely exaggerated and usually do not reflect what it means to be an actual witch. In my opinion, some of the wild ideas of these books, shows and movies continue or create many disillusions and misunderstandings and sometimes even fear. I hope that by sharing some about what I do, may help others to understand or not be afraid. I'm only human. It's my fundamental belief that anyone can use intention to their advantage. No matter how many paths of the craft I've explored, be it green, hedge, cottage, kitchen, psychic, song, and astro… no matter how much I’ve learn and do in my craft, I am always still learning along my way. I relying very strongly on my intuition. I work with specific aspects of my own human nature, and make my own infusions, potions, salves, candles, and oracles I personally scrye and work with runes, tarot, pendulums, palmistry and tasseography. I've made and connected many tools, crystals and herbs to aid me in various workings. More about myself is available at: www.askagreywitch.com/greywitchbryan or about the Sacred Meadow Circle at: www.askagreywitch.com/coven Please stay tuned for some answers to upcoming questions submitted by visitors like you. Topics I will mention in my blog or possibly make videos about will be related to my practice and craft as a male grey witch. Thank you for checking out my website! Please consider sharing or subscribe so not too miss any new content -- Soon to start!!! Take good care always, and blessed be

  • Smoke cleansing, and black salt

    Submitted questions covered in this blog/video: "What is 'smoke cleansing'? And how is it done?" "What is 'black salt'? And how is it made?" Thank you to those whom submitted these questions! In this video I offer an example of smoke cleansing, and how I make black salt. Although the questions were submitted separately, given how these topics are related to eachother in my practice, I thought I'd combine these questions into one video. In my practice, a main source of collecting ash is from burning incense and herb bundles used for smoke cleansings. To do smoke cleansing, gather associated herbs that resonate with your intention and place in a fireproof bowl, dish or cauldron. These could be thyme, pine, cedar, lavender, sage, juniper, peppermint, rosemary, mugwart, etc. For this example, I am burning rosemary and mugwart. I associate these herbs with intuition and protection. Most of the herbs used in my practice are grown in my garden during the growing season and then collected, dried and stored. Once the herbs are contained, it can be lit on fire to produce the smoke. Then, waft the smoke around where/what is to be cleansed. Always being careful with fire, lite the herbs well so that ambers are visible, without flame and the amount of smoke is appealing. Now it can be used for cleansing. There are different uses for smoke cleansings. For example, to cleanse yourself, waft the smoke around you. Or, cleansing your alter or work space. Or, cleansing personal objects, such as crystals. With intention, smoke cleansing can reduce stagnant energy and remove negative energy from ourselves, objects, or our surroundings. Burning herbs will produce ash that can be collected and stored until there is enough ash to make black salt or other protection herb mixes. Be sure they all of the herb has burned and that only ash is remaining. Remove any unburned stems or leaves from the ash, if necessary. After the herbs have been burned and no longer producing smoke (and have cooled down), the ash can be saved and stored in a jar or container until needed. Personally, I like to use a funnel to reduce mess. Ash is extremely powdery and can form a bit of a cloud of poured to quickly. Do not allow unburned herb to mix with the ash and hold them back while pouring the ash into the container to be stored in. I usually just hold it back with my thumb while pouring the contents gently tapping the edge of the bowl to loosen any clumped ash. And, I like to be sure all the ash has been collected and not stuck in the funnel, etc. Slightly tapping can loosen the ash. The ash should appear loose in the jar or container and may require a regular 'shake' every so often so not too clump together. The container can be kept someplace darkdark until it is need. Ash can be used in a variety of traditions, rituals and spells. Once the ash has been collected, it can be used to make black salt. Black salt is personally used in spells and protection herb mixes. To make ash into black salt, add consecrated white salt to it. Personally, I like to use Himalayan pink salts to make black salt. So not too be too course, I like to put into my pastel and mortar to break down into into a fine salt stone powder before addingadding to the ash. If you are using granulated white salt, then there is no need to use a pestle and mortar as it should already be fine enough to use. FYI: Witches black salt is NOT the same thing as cuisine black salt which isa popular mineral ingredientin some Indian foods. Other sources for obtaining ash can be from a bon fire, or firepit, incense, ash trays, campfires, scrapings from a used pot or pan, or just burn herbs to make ash. Some make with finely ground pepper. If you burn in a cauldron, remnants from the bottom can also be collected and added to a black salt protection mix. Basically, any kind of all can be used to make black salt. However, past close attention toto personal associations with the ash source. The basic method of making black salt is to literally mix the same into the ash with intentionintention of using for protection and spellwork. I'm addition to being a powerful ingredient for protection magick, it can also be used in folk tradition for curses, hexes and bindings. It is important to charge the black salt with your energy afterwards while keeping in mind what your later intented use for it is. In this example, I circle the ash in a counter clockwise motion to intent to remove negativity when applied to spellwork or protection. That's basically how I make black salt. Adding cedar and rosemary to black salt creates a powerful protection mix that can be said to protect an area or property. Unfortunately, the sound quality of my microphone was not up to par in order for me to dictate and speak through the video which is the reason I mainly used captions. I apologize for the delay that was caused to post this video/post and also in advance if this makes the video hard to follow. It is my hope to eventually get a proper mic and better lighting options to increase the quality of my videos in the future. In the meantime, please feel free to send to me your suggestions, helpful advice or critique of my video. Be honest -- I can take it! If I can clarify further or if you have questions, please feel free to submit your comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com Thank you for checking out my blog! * BLOG POST UPDATE : Perhaps it also should've been mentioned in this video (shown above) that smudging with smoke and smoke cleansing are not the same thing. Therefore, I didn't think to mention it and in hindsight, I see this as a mistake. For more information about this, please see my blog titled "Opened practices vs closed practices": www.askagreywitch.com/post/open-practices-vs-closed-practices

  • How I became a witch

    Submitted questions covered in this blog: "Did you sell your soul in order to become a witch?" What!?! No!!! Whom would I even sell it too? LOL Seriously though, Thank you to whom submitted this question -- This is perhaps one of those misconceptions that there are about witches in general. It should be mentioned that there is no devil in witchcraft, or Wicca. In fact, in my practice, Gods and Goddesses are voewed as representations to aspects of our own human nature and as well, do not control me. I do devote myself to my intentions and humanistic beliefs. However, the choice is all mine and have sold nothing to be who I am. In fact, I’d say the opposite, I have grown as an individual person because of being a practitioner of magick. I believe that free will is our own and can never be controlled. Even with witchcraft. No one can control another person, not with spells, not with hexes, not with fear. There is only influence, and if the influences are followed through with ...by choice! I think this question could be interpreted differently More so, perhaps this person who asked this question may be wondering, “How did I become a witch?” Or maybe even “what makes me a wiccan?”, ...maybe? And so, I’ll take this moment to talk a little bit about that. ...Sooo, rather... I titled this blog as... "How did I become a witch" instead. In-a-nutshell: It's not that I 'became' a witch. I've been expressing myself in the ways of the craft almost my whole life. It's just who I've always been. Casting my intention to be manifested has always come natural to me from a young age. The earliest spell I can remember casting was from when I was about four years old, discreetly drawing symbolic images with a wax crayon on the back of my parents furniture with intention to bring peace and calm to the disruptive household and the disfunctional family enviroment that I was raised in. To my recollection, it worked and I remember re-charging them to continue their positive influence. Even, to my surprise - I didn't feel in as much trouble as expected when the drawings were eventually found by my parents. Due to knowing the Hollywood fairytales, Catholic imagery and stereotypical view of witches in society, I did not always think of myself as a growing up witch. Not being old, not owning a pointy hat, nore having warts, and even the fact that I am male, I myself was taught all the mistruths about witches and did not associated the workings that I was crafting as witchcraft -- even though it absolutely was -- looking back. If you look it up in the dictionary the meaning of the word 'witchcraft', it is rather skewed: From Merriam-Webster Dictionary https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/witchcraft: -- "Witchcraft definitions: 1. a: the use of sorcery or magic b: communication with the devil or with a familiar 2. :an irresistible influence or fascination 3. a: rituals and practices that incorporate belief in magic and that are associated especially with neo-pagan traditions and religions (such as Wicca ) Practitioners of Wicca … use the tools … such as the broom (a purifying symbol), the wand, candles, crystals and the knife …. They refer to their practices as witchcraft … — Lesley Wright b: (less commonly used) a tradition or religion that involves the practice of Feminist witchcraft sees women's oppression and environmental abuse, which they argue are intimately linked, as firmly rooted in patriarchal religions. — Wendy Griffin Wicca, which emerged in the 1940s in England, is the original form of modern Pagan Witchcraft. — Meg Yardley" -- No wonder I was confused growing up! Even though I grew up in a Catholic home, my beleifs remained Pagan and nature oriented as I developed as a coming citizen. Celebrating pagan holidays and occasions myself euphorically as I became a teenager, I also taught myself the basics of traditional Wicca. As an adult, coming to terms with the true nature of my craft, the balancing of energies that I was doing, and realizing the misunderstandings that have existed for centuries, I began to identify as a magickal practitioner of Witchcraft. Thereby since call myself a witch. So then, what makes me a Wiccan? Also many years into my adulthood, I did become Wiccan officially. As mentioned in a previous post [ https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/why-start-this-blog-channel ] witchcraft and Wicca are not the same thing. I've been Wiccan since 2016. I completed an initiatory process of learning as a Seax Gesith (Anglo Saxon tradition) in 2019. My initiation process basically consisted of 3 stages of development: For the first year and one day, I was taught, researched and studied/learned as much as I could about Wicca and it's history and evolution as a religion, Anglo Saxon deity representations, working tools, rituals, ceremonies, etc. whilst worked at expanding my practice into new areas of energy and magick. For another year and a day, I implemented what I've learned and by this point I had formed a daily practice around my magick, rituals, and traditions. During so, also recognizing relationships with spirit and aspects of my own human nature. Building from my spiritual expressions and personal humanist beliefs, I continue to celebrating the wiccan holidays and rituals, etc. in my own unique ways. Then, for the third year and a day, while continuing my practice and traditions through out each complete turn of the wheel of the year, others began to present themselves to me whom where starting their own journeys in their own craft on a Wiccan path, or in witchcraft, and began reaching out to me with questions, or giving me opportunity to share my points of view. This really seemed to help others with all the positive feedback that I received. By sharing information from my own perspective, or helping others to find the information that they were looking for, I found a way for me to support other practitioners of magick in a way that was meaningful for them, and also to myself. (I have never really stopped helping others it ways of the craft since.) After the three year and three day full cycle of initiation I had my initiation ceremony which was one of the most personal and magickal evenings of my life. That moment of completing my initiation still inspires me today and makes me proud to be me and the wiccan man that I am. I have continued to live a magickal life as a witch in the Seax Wiccan way since. Over the years, I have met so many interesting people who also identify as a witch with very different practices and rituals than my own. Learning about others' traditions and individual ways of the craft has really expanded my own practice by confirming for me that my path is right for myself, and that it's totally ok to be different. It's ok to be on seperate paths in life. Because, we can still learn from eachother, with acceptance. Thank you for reading my blog! It is my hope that this has helped to clear up some misunderstanding for whom asked this question, and maybe for others as well. Please consider sharing my channel or subscribe so not too miss any new content. Stay tuned for more answers (from my personal perspective) to some upcoming questions submitted by viewers like you. Some questions have started coming in and it should be mentioned that ONLY questions related to my practice and craft as a male grey witch will be acknowledged. Also, let's please keep comments respectful with the sharing of opinions, shall we? Take good care always, and blessed be.

  • How often I use magick -typical day

    Submitted questions covered in this blog: "How often do you use magick, cast spells, etc.?" Actually, I feel like magick has always been involved in every part of my life, through out each day. So, to answer this question, I thought I'd describe a typical day in my life as a grey witch. Thank you so much to whom submitted this question. Each morning (almost every day) starts early with tea, meditation and a personal self tarot reading for my day. My crystal ball is often used for focus and staying objective during readings. I will typically do a five card pyramid spread for myself describing the kind of day I can look forward to. During, I will stir intentions for myself in my tea and keep that in mind while I drink it. Sometimes I will think of an affirmation that I then write on my hand using a magickal black ink that I create myself beforehand from black salt and a plant based alcohol. The word chosen usually relates to or reminds me of my self tarot reading messages or the intention set for my day, and are written in a Theban style alphabet so that I am the only one who can read it through out the day. The remnants of the tea leaves in the bottom of the cup can also be read for messages. If I can expect a busy day, I may secure the affirmation on my skin by applying a basic bees wax salve over it to protect it from running or smudging. Personally, I've known myself to sometimes do glamour spells with self made ointments and salves to get ready for the day. No, that's not for making myself feel pretty -- younger however. I wake up early in the mornings because I do care for hens (chickens) and so each morning before sunrise they are given fresh water and are fed. Eggs are collected and again through out the day as they are laid (well, as soon as I can go get them, bring them in and clean the eggs if needed. The shells are not discarded after use and are stored and made into ingredients for spells, or crushed and spread in the garden to protect vegetable plants from the many rabbits that live around my house. As a refresher, I take a daily walk through the forests surrounding my home. Sometimes, twice a day, I can be found wandering away from the formed paths to guide and direct myself through the brush and trees. I may collect small items to use as offerings once I'm back home. To get the day started for everyone within my home, I will often dress an eight hour burn candle with inscriptions, oils and herbs to be burned throughout the day. I often tried to help my children retain focus and interest while doing their school studies remotely during the pandemic restrictions. The candle is usually placed in the center of my home on the main floor of the house in a fire proof dish or candle holder for everyone inside to feel it's influence of healing, or clarity of thought, flow of joy, blessings or sometimes protection (depending on my intention set). It is often set with an incense burning along side it, and I will ring my singing bowl to encourage calm and relaxation. Also due to the past pandemic restrictions, my spouse and I has to work from home mainly. And so, I am able keep a close watch on the candle while it burns through out the day -- I never leave a candle unsupervised!!! While working on my during-the-day tasks, I might light an additional incense or spray a spritz in the air that I've made to help encourage productivity or to de-stress if needed. I may also hold a tiger eye crystal in my pocket. If doing some house keeping I will use self made infusions and cleansing vinegar solution as cleaners and cleansers. I may also hold aqua aura quartz in my pocket while, or another stone of reverence. Being the very busy household that it most often is, there are times in the day when I need I moment to just sit and breath or get some fresh air. In this kind of moment, I will do an invisibility spell so not too be found for a moment of peace and quiet. When I do this, I'm not actually turning myself literally invisible. But whilst, no one seems to be able to find me or look where I am when searching for me when I do it. My family often says that I disappear and accuse me of momentarily escaping this plain of existence. 😉 As my full time business, others can book intuitive reading sessions with me at different times in the day, or regarding mediumship, and/or consultation, etc. These sessions can either take place in person or remotely over Zoom or another video chat platform. When doing so, I'll setup my reading table in a descrete location in the house. I can do distant energy reading with the aid of my large crystal ball. Occasionally, I also attend markets and festivals where I give intuitive tarot readings through out my attendance there. These events can sometimes require travel, long days, and some of them go on into the evenings. Some afternoons, I may do simple rituals, such as smoke cleanse most of the house with a dried herb blend of my own if I feel needed. I may also update and recharge any protection workings that are on going. Consisting of home grown and then dried herbs such as habiscus, rose, rosemary, cedar, pine, and some other very common plants and weeds, or in extreme cases, sage which also grows in my garden. Most of my dried herbs and plants that I use are from my personal garden that was harvested during the end of the last growing season and then stored to be used throughout the fall/winter/spring seasons. During the growing season, I would need to tend to the gardens before the heat of the summer day, usually in the mornings or evenings, watering, weeding, etc. Sometimes, during the day or towards the evening I will take a short moment to acknowledge spirits, guides, deities, or whomever I've felt around me or influencing me recently around that time. Cooking for dinners quite often involve kitchen magick of love, healing, protection, and blessings for those whom share the meal. With a large family, I have a huge wooden 100+ year old harvest table that I absolutely love! It is blessed regularly and used for all kinds of feasts and meals, celebrations, rituals, workings, magickal preparations, daily meals, planning, discussions, etc. As all of the activity of my busy household calms down towards the end of the day, late evenings are often the best times for me to set my intentions to manifest, scrye, meditate further, do shadow work or do other spellwork -- especially during new moon or full moon phases. Evening rituals usually involve the opening of a circle, or other protections (depending), as well as calling on spirit, or deity, consecration of tools and/or supplies, magickal workings or spells, libation or showing thanks, or offerings and closing of the circle, then a cleansing of the area and a blessing. If a coven meeting has been arranged or scheduled, I will attend usually in person for the evening at the agreed upon location and those gatherings can go on into the night depending on what the group is working on. More info about my coven is available at www.askagreywitch.com/coven Almost every night I may cleanse myself with a large selenite wand before I get myself ready for sleep. I may write in my Book of Shadows or my Grimoire. To assist with a restful sleep I will use a lavender oil that I infused beforehand, or if I am planning dream work, I may use mugwart or rosemary before falling asleep to assist with dream recall in the morning. It's effective enough to just skip the herb under my pillow while I sleep. I have used candle magick to have a better and deeper sleep before. Rarely, but sometimes, protections or energy sheilds can be charged or raised for while I am sleeping so not to be disturbed. My Book of Mirrors is kept beside my bed or on my main alter to be readily available to scribe or analyse any dreams, or describe my experience in the moment after waking up if I feel I have astral traveled in my sleep (which has happened), or visits from dream walking spirits, etc. The next day starts early and basically a simular cycle continues! Adjusting and adapting to whatever is grown my way for each day depending 😉 If I can clarify further or if you have questions, please feel free to submit your comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com. Thank you for reading about my typical day!!!

  • Shadow work in my opinion

    Submitted questions covered in this blog: "Can you describe what Shadow Work looks like in your practice?" Shadow work can look different for each practitioner. As also described in my Tarot website www.staffordtarot.com, I use shadow work regularly as a way for me to better know my inner self, strengths, weaknesses, ego, etc. In recognizing my own energy, I am able to then separate myself from the energy of my surroundings, during readings or energy from others. This allows for a strong objective-ness during intuitive readings, or not too have my own ego to interfere with my intention. It's called Shadow work because it involves getting to know every part of ourselves that can not be seen by others and sometimes not even realized by ourselves. It can be difficult to explore darker sides of our personalities, or parts of ourselves that we try to hide from the world. But, learning to face all emotions regarding past experiences or feelings that are kept deep within can be empowering in itself building confidence and inner strength. One way to get started that I recommend is by keeping a journal or diary where the entries are meant to create little reflections of yourself over time. Given this purpose, I like to call this a book of mirrors. In it, entries can include written stories, activities or exercises, or whatever you can use to personally analyse thoughts or feelings on a particular topic. A good example of one of these activities is the creation of what's commonly known as a bucket list. Generally speaking, a bucket list is a sort of checklist of things to which one wants to accomplish or experience in their life before they die. Looking at how many of those items remain unchecked can help to create a plan of action before opportunities are missed. Another example would be writing all the things that you do not prefer about yourself, or wanting to change. Whether it's laziness, or lack of passion, or other vices. This can help to understand the alterations or changes needed from our own behaviour in order to make ourselves healthier or happier. There are so many ways to which this can be applied. Exploring and understanding the hidden truths of ourselves allows us to know our true and pure intentions. This is powerful when working with energy. In my opinion, this makes Shadow work an important place to get started for any practitioner of magick. -- Taken from my website staffordtarot.com Creating a self awareness during meditations or some psychic exercises, I strengthen my focusing abilities. I do alot of journaling, keep a diary of events, track progress of my workings and practices, and I also keep a Grimoire for future planning of spells. I would consider all of these as shadow work involved activities. Shadow work has also been instrumental in my mediumship journey. The more clearly that I can sense my own energy compared to others' the more accurately I can sense the energy of spirits "reaching out" to me. The better that I know my inner shadow self the better I am able to sense the presences of energy of and within my surroundings. Hense, why I very often say how important Shadow work has been to my own practice. Before and after strong magickal workings are other times that I use shadow work regularly. Especially planning and designing workings and rituals in advance. Being that it is intention that energetically powers spellwork, I beleive that knowing the true intentions of my inner shadow self has been key in many successful manifestations in my life. It has allowed me to sense when balance of energies is acheivable which shaped my path as a witch that I was/am in fact a grey witch influencing all kinds of energies. Even within the mundane there's nothing wrong with planning ahead to be sure to acheive specific goals or outcomes. In my opinion shadow work is done by everyone in some way or form at any time that we analyse ourselves or work through our own feelings and thoughts. Even counseling, such as therapy is a form of shadow work in my view. If interested, please feel free to check out https://www.askagreywitch.com/shadowwork for more ideas for shadow work journaling exercises. Thanks to whom submited this question, and thank you for checking out my blog(s). If you have questions yourself, please feel free to submit your comments and questions from the homepage at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com Update :. I expanded further on the topic of shadow work in a more recent blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/shadow-work-expanded

  • Sigil work

    The submitted question covered in this blog/video : "How do you make sigils?" Thank you to whom submitted this question. I make magickal sigils often, And I use the more common way to create them. By combining consonants to form a symbol that can be charged with intention. I explain most of it in this video: There are multiple techniques to create a sigil. In this video, I'm going to focus on the most common way to make them using letters of a word. For the purpose of this example, I've decided to use an oracle deck to choose the word for me that I will make a sigil from. Phrases and sentences can also be the focus of the suck being made. The word that I will use for this example is "T R A N S F O R M A T I O N" A transformation sigil can be used with the intention of big changes to come in the near future. Be sure to write down your intention with a sentence, phrase, or word that you have chosen to make the sigil from. Examples: "More confident at work"; "Bryan Stafford will win the lottery"; "Manifest healing" -- Be specific with your desires. To get started, you will need a piece of parchment or paper, and a pencil, pen, or marker to write with. I like to begin with the first letter, "T" for this example. Then I added the next letter, "R". Be creative and feel satisfied by the placement of each letter. Skipping all vowels and repeated consonants. The letters to work with here are, "T R N S F M". So, in this example, the next letter to include is "N". The letters can actually be added to the sigil in any order providing not to be repeatedly used. And, don't forget to skip vowels. Next, I added the "F". Device carefully. Then, I added the "M". Charge each letter with the energy of your desire as you write. Take the time that you feel that you need to create your sigil. Last, I added the"S". Runes and other symbols can also be implemented into the sigil. I added positive 'Flow' in different directions for this example. When completed, with focus on your intention circle the sigil the times. This is a convinient time to say an incantation if you'd like. Can be something simple, like "With this sigil, being to mea positive transformation. So more it be, so shall it be, so blessed be.". Focus on the new sigil design and associate with the desire. For this example, "positive changes coming". Charge the sigil with the associated intention, such as "a positive change coming my way". This same technique can also be applied with the use of a Theban alphabet / character set to make the studio the same way: using only consonants without repeating letters from the word, sentence or phrase written in Theban lettering. You can also use all lower case, as shown in the video, or uppercase letters. It is your choice. Another technique used to make sigils is with the use of numerology, and a 3x3 square chart (see video @ 03:30 for sample). A=1, B=2, C=3, D=4, E=5, F=6, G=7, H=8, I=9, J=1, K=2, L=3, M=4, N=5, O=6, P=7, Q=8, R=9, S=1, T=2, U=3, V=4, W=5, X=6, Y=7, Z=8, Another technique that is similar is with the use of a letter circle chart (see video @ 03:58 for sample). And, there are other techniques, such as Pictorial sigils which is created with images to represent the intention within the sigil. Another, is with automatic writing, closing your eyes and scribble while meditating and allow with the open or pencil to intuitively form a sigil. And more! (Can be searched online). Once I have a sigil created, I will sometimes surround it with symbols of runes that that I associate with my intention for it's use afterwards. The sigil can be implemented into candle magick by placing a charged candle over the sigil and allowing it to burn the wax down completely. A grounding powder (made with cinnamon bark) can be sprinkled over the candle to give this candle spell magickal extra boost! There are many uses and ways to benifit from sigils: Stir into tea, coffee and other drinks. Place inside the bottoms of your shoes Paint on your skin Burn into wooden spoons, or tools, table tops, alter or work spaces. Draw onto discuss and entrances Place under your bed, chair, etc. Paint onto rocks, carve into sticks, Draw into the sand or dirt, Write into a leaf or piece of paper and burn it to release it's energy. Stitch into clothing, pillow cases, blankets, towels, quilt, etc. Place behind your phone case, Draw onto mirrors, or on the wall behind a mirror, Carve into the edge of candles, Bring to your place of employment, Or carry it with you, in your purse, or wallet, Use as a book mark, it place within your book of shadows, Carve into ice, and allow to melt releasing it's energy, Hide a sigil under carpet, being wallpaper, or paint over it, ...the possibilities are endless!!! When using Oracle or tarot cards, I always take time to discharge the cards and to thank the deck for its assistance. Destroying a sigil, such as burying or catching it on fire, will release it's energy to the universe. That is basically it. -- Here are the templates for a couple of sigil creations. As always, I am happy to clarify anything here. If you have questions, please feel free to submit them at www.askagreywitch.com. Thank you for reading my blog or viewing my video.

  • Working with the moon phases

    Submitted question covered in this blog/picture: "What importance do full moons have, witchcraft-wise?" Thank you to whom submitted this question. In my spiritual practice the moon is very important, especially full moons. From my perspective, the different phases of the moon can help focus different intention and to time spellwork accordingly. We all feel the effects of the moon whether we realize it or not. I feel the best way to answer this question is to briefly explain each moon phase, including full moons: For example, a new moon is often referred to a time of new beginnings. It's the beginning of a new cycle and so is considered the best time to start something new or to learn a new trait, or take up a new hobby, etc. It's no coincidence that many people instinctually start new projects moreso around new moon phases than any other time of any given month. The waxing moon is often referred to as a time of growth, development, or achievement. Sowing seeds during a new moon phase allows the plants to grow more effectively as the moon's light grow thereafter. This is due to the effect the moon has on water. As the light of the moon grows along its surface, so does the intended intention for that time. It's simmilar for a waning moon. But reversed, it's often referred to as the time to focus on release, disguarding, or letting go. As the light of the moon shrinks across its surface, so also does the intended intention for that time. That being said, a full moon has the biggest energetic impact. It has a significant effect on everything from weather, the ocean tides, animal behaviour, and even a heightened awareness within people. It's no coincidence that many have trouble sleeping during full moon phases and not because of the additional light at night. People often observed stranger than normal behavior of others during a full moon. The full moon represents effect and power. (Back to the question) ... That being said, why is this important in witchcraft? Spellwork often revolves around these energetic properties of the moon phases. A new moon is considered the best time for divination and shadow work. A wanning moon is considered the best time for a cord cutting ritual, or a banishment spell. A waxing moon is considered the best time to magickally bring something into your life. Given that full moons are so powerful, it is considered the best time for energetic charging of tools, crystals, making moon water, etc., As well as important witchcraft workings, coven gatherings and group spellwork, and so on. -- Picture taken from my old personal Book of Shadows. For instance, moon water is made by simply leaving a container, jar or bowl of water out in the Moon light to be charged by the energetic properties of the full moon. Many see it as a monthly cleansing and empowerment ritual to be done with crystals, tools and other personal objects or future spell work useables. It's important to know that lunar eclipses always happen during full moons and can be powerful when focusing on the entirety of the moon phases within one night. This can require punctiliousness and endurance to do that kind of complicated working. Be wary with spells associated with the Moon during an Ecliptic Full Moon. In my experience the transitory energies of the eclipse can cause unexpected charging of unintended energies. For example, changing the charge in the making of moon water under not just a full moon, but one that transitions through all moon phases. It should be mentioned that the above is described in terms of my spirituality in witchcraft only and does not also detail the importance of the full moon within Wiccan religious practices which can vary depending on the branch of Wicca being discussed. It is in hopes that this is helpful even though only touches briefly on this very large topic. If I can expand further, please let me know. As always, questions are much welcome and can be submitted at www.askagreywitch.com Thank you for reading my blog! Update : Some information has been written about making moon water in a newer blog entry at https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/full-moon-to-do-or-not-to-do And, about full moons is expanded on in the newer blog entry called Full Moon: To do, or Not to do https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/full-moon-to-do-or-not-to-do

  • Runes and Tarot reading

    The submitted question covered in this blog/picture: "Do you give tarot readings?" Thank you for submitting this question after viewing my video on sigils www.askagreywitch.com/post/sigil-work as mentioned in the submission, it was noticed that I used a tarot deck in that video. Actually, I do give tarot readings professionally and rune readings regularly. More information on this is available on my other website www.staffordtarot.com . If interested, below are some tips on how to learn to do rune or tarot readings for yourself: Find a rune set or tarot deck that you like. There are many different kinds of runes and cards that can be used for excellent readings. The most common rune set is the Viking Runes. The most common tarot deck is the Rider Waite deck. There are many other tarot decks the use the same or similar symbolism and meanings as the Rider Waite illustrations. There are also other decks that are completely different and have their own design. Take your time to find the rune set or tarot deck that speaks to you. When you have purchased your new runes or cards, or made them yourself, keep it in a special pouch, or wrap them in a special clothe, and somehow personalize them to make them your own. Some sleep with them under their pillow for the first few weeks to charge with their energy. Others place certain types of crystals with them when not in use. Always keep them covered to remain dust free and they will last longer. Do what feels right to you in creating a relationship with your own personal runes or tarot deck. Spend some time getting to know the runes or cards. For runes, study the origins and meanings of each and keep in mind your own interpretations. What does each rune 'say' to you? For tarot, lay out the entire deck. You can separate the Higher Arcana cards, Court cards, and Lower Arcana cards at first if that helps to focus on the differences between these groups within common decks. Go through the deck and familiarize yourself with each card's symbolisms. What does each card 'say' to you? Whether you are working with runes or tarot cards, be objective, and trust your instincts. Most runes sets and tarot decks will come with an instruction book that can be used at first as a general guideline. However, eventually you should reach a point when you feel confident to read the runes or cards without these descriptions. As you go through the runes or cards more you'll begin to form a kind of relationship as you learn the cards meanings, including your own interpretations. Follow your intuition. Consider how each rune or card may mean something different according to where and how it is placed in your layout or spread. If the interpreted meanings of your runes or cards do not seem to fit with your subject or question, write down those details and watch for events to unfold over the next few days or so - sometimes meanings can make more sense afterwards. Some forewarnings may not make sense until 'it' happens. In the beginning, you're going to have difficulty reading a complicated layout or spread. Especially, if you haven't built a relationship with the runes or cards (getting to know them well). I'd suggest to start with a simple layout or spread first (1 rune/card draw, or a 3-5 runes draw or cards spread for example). Then, when you feel confident learn the more challenging methods, such as a full rune casting, or full tarot spreads (5-9 cards spread, or the commonly used 10 card Celtic Crux spread, or others) A great way to start readings is to give yourself readings on a regular basis. I STILL do daily readings for myself to know what to expect each day. Each time you'll learn more and more about your own interpretations of the runes or cards and layouts or spreads used. This allows you to become more comfortable and confident before giving readings to others. Knowing yourself well enough is key to remaining objective while giving readings. Our inner-selves can sometimes throw us off in self readings, which is why some books do not recommend it. The more objective you are in self readings, the more accurately you'll be able to interpreted the messages for yourself, and as well for others. More recently, I wrote about self tarot readings suggestions in another blog entry at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/self-tarot-reading-suggestions If I can clarify further or if you have more questions, please feel free to submit your comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com Thank you for reading my blog.

  • Spirit boards

    The submitted question covered in this blog: "Are Ouiji boards dangerous?" Ouiji boards are often the target of scary stories or horror movies and are usually quite misunderstood. Many see them as bad or evil due to these widely known misconceptions that exist, especially amongst some Catholic religious groups. The word "Ouija" has been trademarked by the Hasbro gaming company to sell as a kind of family board game and that word has often been used to refer to them. It is originally known as a talking board or a spirit board. It consists of a flat wooden board marked with the letters of the alphabet, the numbers 0–9, sometimes also containing the words "yes", "no", "hello" and "goodbye". The way that it is used is with a small heart-shaped piece of wood that is simular to an arrow or pointer that slides along the board's surface to spell out messages received from a requested or called upon spirit. It is used as a form of communication with spirit, similar to the use a pendulum. But, by a group of people (not just an individual) and is much more precise with the messages received instead of just a simple "yes" or "no" response. Participants place their fingers on the piece of wood (called a planchette), and it is moved about the board to spell out the messages. It is by the unconscious movements of those controlling the planchette that it moves around the board. In the same way that it is the unconscious movements of an individual that moves a pendulum. When there is a gathering of people who come together to attempt to communicate with a specific spirit, it is often referred to as a seance. A spirit board is a divination tool usually involving the attempt to find closure with past loved ones by asking them specific questions and reading their answers as revealed on the board. It is absolutely not bad, or evil in it's origins. In fact, in the past it was viewed as a parlor game, similar to tarot cards. Where it is seen as a risk in its use is that if each participant is not focused anyone one of them can call upon any spirit to come through on the spirit board that perhaps others are not intending and would otherwise not have a connection to. Once a connection is made with a spirit, there can be an avenue for further interaction with, even without the use of the board thereafter. Afterall, it is the beholders participating in the seance that are behind it's ability and power to commune with spirits, not the board itself. There is a common fear that a spirit board can bring forth demons that can possess the participants. However, that would mean that at least one of the participants already had a previous connection with such an entity and called forth the specific malicious spirit to be involved. This is very rare and requires intention to do such a thing. The experience of using a spirit board is usually of positive transformation. Thank you so much to whom submitted this question. It is in hopes that by answering it, that I have helped to debunk some if the misconceptions that there are regarding this special divination tool. Thank you also for reading my blog. As always, if there are other questions please do not hesitate to submit them at www.askagreywitch.com.

  • Curses and Hexes

    Submitted question covered in this blog: "How do you cast a hex on someone?" This is an interesting question and although I am thankful to receive it, I am hesitant to describe the steps and stages of how to do a hex unless i know that there is experience with working baneful magick. However, I can explain what a hex is. In order to describe what a hex is, I feel I must first explain the difference of what a curse is. A curse is the opposite of a blessing. It is like a negative wish upon someone else. It is actually quite commonly done and some curses can be done easily, even by non-witches. A simple hand gesture, like raising a middle finger at someone is a very simple form of a curse. The results of a simple curse are usually short lived and not always very impactful depending on the seriousness of the feelings involved. A curses strength may depend on the emotions involved. Also, curses do tend to backfire if uncontrolled when sent out. For example, road rage often results in a curse being sent towards the other driver. That rage involved can backfire onto the sender, in this example if no longer focused or paying as close attention to their driving (cause an accident) or their health (high blood pressure, etc.), Or their mental state (not think about the consequences to their actions before it's too late). Being confident and sure if one's self is often enough to avoid the influences caused by a simple curse. Protections can be done too avoid influence from stronger curses. A hex is a bit different than a curse, as it is done through spellwork, is also intended to bring negative misfortune or harm and the effect can last a long time. It is the total opposite to a healing spell and it's effects can be devastating. Sending vast negativity at someone, it is often mistaken for a curse. But, it is not like a curse, as it's much more direct and consistent along side workings. The influences caused by a hex are often unavoidable in most cases. It requires practically feeling literal long-standing hate for someone in order to acheive results and is also often performed repetitively. Much protection and focus is advised when performing a hex so not too backfire the attempt into one's self or those surrounding. The results really depend on the baneful intentions involved in the spellwork. A hex can sometimes be undone by undoing the original harm that invoked the need for such hate. That being said, it takes soooo much energy and effort for someone to cast a hex that it is very draining. Not to mention, other witches themselves most often use their own personal protections against malicious workings against them. In most cases, it's not actually worth doing in the first place. Quite often a banishment, or a binding or a reversal spell or a blessing will suffice. Hexes are actually quite rarely done by witches because of this. Curses on the other hand can be very simple and quickly done. Often, simply done with words. It is in hopes that this information is helpful in understanding that doing hexes should be avoided. Unless very experienced or knowledgeable in those kinds of baneful workings, it would not be recommended to try to do. Was this helpful? Did this blog entry make sense? If not, please feel free to let me know of your questions or concerns by submitting them to me at the www.askagreywitch.com homepage and I will try to elaborate here for you further. Stay safe everyone, and blessed be.

  • My paganism

    Submitted question covered in this blog: "Is your family also Pagan/Wiccan?" Thank you to whom submitted this question. Indeed, I have followed the Wiccan ways since before 2016 when i began my three years and three days initiation. In my even younger years before then, i learned about Wicca and dabbeled in some Wiccan traditions. However, since i was very young witchcraft and Paganism has always captured my whole being. There is a difference between Wicca and witchcraft as explained in a previous blog: www.askagreywitch.com/post/why-start-this-blog-channel and I've talked in another previous blog about how I intuitively began witchcraft from a young age: www.askagreywitch.com/post/how-i-became-a-witch So, what makes me Pagan? From a very young age, i have always held a solid respect for nature and all living creatures and plants. The seasons changes have always been times of reflection for me and I have always held a deep respect for the times of the year that are traditionally the prime pagan celebrations within what's known as the "wheel of the year". The wheel of the year can be described as a circular calendar where as several holidays are equally spread out in one year cycle. The year consistently repeating itself like a circle, and these special pagan holiday times symbolically act as the "spokes" of that circular system often referred to as forming a wheel: Image taken from my old book of shadows. Even though while growing up my birth family was Catholic, i did not relate to their beliefs and traditions. Church sermans always left me with confusion and more questions until i refused to attend. While others around me celebrated Christmas, I was reflecting on and respecting the three days of darkness (the longest nights of the year) from Dec. 21st until Dec. 24th and I would behold the slight changes of the sun beginning to return on Dec. 25th, essentially celebrating Yule. While my parents celebrated Easter as the death and resurrection of Christ, I was observing balancing of light/dark and the awakening of nature and returning of spring/summer, essentially celebrating Ostara. Etc. As i got older my own traditions further differed from my family's traditions. Educating myself, I began to identify as Pagan. Given these stark differences between my birth family and myself, i left home at the early age of 15 years old and set out on my own journey of discovery learning the pagan traditions and rites that I also learned have been followed by others for centuries. Skipping to many years later, after connecting with other Pagans, learning further about the pagan traditions and practices from a few mentors, and from my own understandings of life, I held an even deeper connection with nature and my place within the universe. Gods and Goddesses have always been considered to me as aspects of human nature that can be connected to/with through ritual, offerings and deep meditation. Knowing my own inner self and recognizing the shadows of my subconscious became trivial in my journey of self discovery and identity. Now (again even many years after that), i have my own household family with my spouse and our four children. My spouse is Pagan with shamanistic energies. Therefore, is not Wiccan as am I. It was/is important to both of us that our children also take their own journey each into self reflection and discovery, to follow their head and heart together regarding what beleifs are held important to them as they grow in their own spirituality. Two of my children have Iroquois indigenous heritage, one of my children is Pagan, and one of my children follow a Catholic ideology and has been babtised. This variation within my household is totally fine with me as we have always been a family with values of diversity and acceptance. This does not hinge on my own way of life in which i live as i stay true to my self and my own Wiccan beliefs. Which is what i teach my children, to be true to yourself . And, that's totally acceptable. Long story short, my family is not Wiccan. I hope that this has helped to answer the question submitted. If you have questions regarding my practice, rituals, traditions, and/or beliefs, please feel free to submit them at www.askagreywitch.com. Thank you for reading more about me and for visiting my blog.

  • Creating a witch's bottle

    Submitted question covered in this blog: "How would you protect against malicious magick? " Negativity wards are essential in my practice to bring balance by discouraging negativity and to feel protected against the negative intentions of others. This question is greatly appreciated and thank you to whom submitted it. First off, the more positive you are in your thinking the less negativity will have an effect on you. But, sometimes it can be helpful to ward off the influence of some of the incoming negativity that may be sent by others. There are so many ways to create a ward to discourage unwanted negativity or the lowering if energetic vibrations. I would recommend using several techniques to ward off negative energies if felt or need be. -- Image of witch balls of cottage witchcraft The one that i will talk about here in this blog is one of oldest and most powerful form of a negativity ward known, that i have researched, is the creation of a Witch's bottle spell. To create a Witch's bottle spell, you will need: A glass jar with a sealable lid Sharp or reflective items such as pins, nails, pieces of glass, broken mirror, etc. Salt or sea salt that's been consecrated A piece of string A black candle A magickal tag or bodily fluids of the person to be protected (such as urine) To start, fill the jar about half way with the sharp or reflective items with the intention of shredding or reflecting back any negative energy directed towards the intended protected person. Add the salt with it's purification properties, and the red string as a protective association. Add the urine (or blood or other bodily fluid as a magickal tag) of the person to be protected. Hair, or fingernail clippings can also be added. The intention of adding the essence of the person is to draw the negative energy to the bottle instead of the person and then the sharp items within either shred the negative energy or reflective objects within reflect it back to the sender. If not comfortable with the use of bodily fluids, you could also consecrated moon water or wine as a substitute. I would not recommend the use of vinegar for this spell as vinegar is commonly used to preserve or curse within some hexes. Close the jar (make sure that it is air tight so not too leak) and seal it with the candle wax. Once the bottle is created with intention and you are satisfied with it, hide it in the home or bury it outside. Be sure to choose a hiding place where it will not be found or disturbed. In the olden days, a Witch's bottle could be hidden behind the stones within a chimney hearth or built within the walls of a cabin, for example. For those who may be renting a home or apartment, or do not have access to property, it could be buried in a large house plant pot, or strategically hidden in a cupboard, under a step, in an attic or basement, etc The bottle can then be hidden somewhere where it for sure is not to be disturbed. It is then left out of sight out of mind to do it's job. It will protect the home against any negative intentions from others which also includes any malicious spellwork from other witches. This work brings the mind at ease and allows the focus of positive intentions without being bombarded with the negativity of others. -- Image of 17th Century Witch's Bottle (I haven't included an image of my own witch's bottle, since it is such a personal protective spell, and also, it so well hidden, not even I can retrieve it 😉) Please feel free to let me know if i can elaborate further on this topic or you have any other questions or concerns. Messages can be submitted to me right the www.askagreywitch.com homepage or by writing email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com. Stay safe and blessed be

  • Self tarot reading suggestions

    Submitted question covered in this blog: "Can you please give suggestions to a beginner tarot reader?" As a professional tarot reader I am always interested in helping others who are wanting to learn tarot for themselves. My suggestion would be to start with learning to do self readings. Doing self readings is really about getting to know yourself well as you analyse your thoughts, emotions, and reactions to the messages in the cards by applying them to the situations of your life, or to the question or subject of the self reading. It is within this inner self reflection that insight and new perspectives are gained. There is a difference between Oracle cards and traditional Tarot cards. Oracle cards are usually numbered or ordered (but not always). However oracle decks tend to contain their own individual structure. When referring to self readings, I am more referencing learning a traditional tarot structured, such as the Ryder Waite Smith deck and alike. In this case, I would recommend separating all of the cards into seperate groups to learn gradually. For example, Lower Arcana cards (suits Ace to Ten) Cups (or Water, or West) - emotion Wands (or Fire, or South) - action Swords (or Air, or East) - thought Coins/Penticals (or Earth, or South) - money/health Court cards of the suits (Pages, Knights, Queens, Kings) Higher Arcana (0 to 21 [without suits]) Put each group of cards in order and go through each one by one as if flipping through pages of a story. Each suite is a different path in life. Swords represent thoughts and intellect. Wands or sticks represent physical accomplishments and passions. Cups represent feelings and intuition. Coins or pentacles represent work or projects or needs of the body and mind. I previously wrote about doing tarot and rune readings in a previous blog entry at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/runes-and-tarot On my other website, www.staffordtarot.com there is another blog all related to tarot which includes reading tips and suggestions and also features a free online video beginners course created by Lindsay Knight, a talented numerologist and intuitive reader (and a mentor of mine): http://www.staffordtarot.com/blog/categories/lessons I would strongly recommend taking these free lessons and following along with your own deck of cards. My website also gives other helpful suggestions, advice, and tips on how to do self readings. Including the following Do's and Don'ts to consider when getting started: DO'S : Create a relationship with the cards or runes and get to know their meanings on a personal level. For simple questions or topics, use a simple spread or layout. Choose a spread or layout to use first, even before shuffling the cards or holding the runes. Focus on the use of the spread or layout chosen with the intention of the reading while shuffling the cards or holding/casting the runes. Be objective through out the reading, and remain subjective. Keep an open mind, and accept the messages received. Hear what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. Expect the unexpected DON'T: Readings shouldn't really be done for others while haven't taken the time to get to know the cards for one's self. Don't do readings when emotional They're should be no need to draw "classifiers" or extra tarot cards from the same deck beyond the chosen spread Avoid doing multiple readings on the same question or topic without allowing time to pass in order to offer a new perspective. Don't do readings in hopes for specific meanings. There's no need using complicated spreads or layouts for simple questions or basic topics. Please feel free to contact me from my website www.staffordtarot.com/contact if you have any questions regarding tarot or intuitive readings specifically. Otherwise, any questions related to my magickal practice can be submitted right from the homepage of www.askagreywitch.com. Thank you for reading my blog and for submitting your question!

  • Green witchcraft

    The submitted question covered in this blog/pictures: "What is 'green' witchcraft?" There are different realms of magick in terms of areas of witchcraft. Basically a green witch studies the magickal and medicinal properties of plants. Many plants and herbal remedies can be used within spellwork and ritual. Here are examples of some of the useful local plants (in my area) that I work with regularly: Dandelions: Dandelions are connected with healing and psychic power. The leaves are eatable and if harvested before the plant starts flowering the leaves can make an excellent healthy addition to salads. Once flowering the leaves taste bitter. If already flowering, the blooms can be harvested and made into an infused syrup. I like to harvest the roots of this plant and cut up and dry to make a dandelion root tea that I drink before divination. If you roast the roots in the oven on a low temperature until it slightly changes colour the tea will be more of a rich nutty coffee experience. Plantain: Plantain is associated with healing, strength, protection and can empower spellwork. This is an excellent plant to have growing close by of you have any kind of skin irritation, such as bug bites, sun burns, thistle stabbings, etc. Literally rub a leaf against your skin for releif. Can be made into an infusion that can be poured over skin irritations. I like to infuse a grape seed oil and make a beeswax based salve with this plant which can be applied to the skin to also help with acne, escema, scoriosis, rash, etc. Can also relieve cold symptoms if made into a tea. However, be advised that it's not safe to invest if you are pregnant or live with any type of blood disorder or have a history of blood clotting. Colts foot: Coltsfoot has been used in love, tranquility and money spells and can be burned during divination rites. It can also be added to divinatory and healing incense. The leaves can be dried and burned to relieve a cough or help with breathing issues such as weeziness, asthma, congestion, smokers cough, etc. Over ingestion can lead to some problems with the liver. And so, i would not recommend inhaling the smoke directly. Wafting it in my presence is usually enough to open the air pathways when inhaling normally to assist with breathing more smoothly. The flowers of this plant which bloom in the summer (were it gets its name because they look like pony-hooves when dried) can be added lightly to a dry tea mix when dealing with a cold, the flu or covid. I often use during spring rituals because it is one of the first flowers to appear in the season and the long stems can be woven into wreaths. Bindweed: Considered a bane to most avid gardeners - not to me! As the name suggests, this long narrow growing vine can be harvested to be used for binding spells and rituals. Quite often these invasive plants grow spiraling up the stems of other plants choking them out. I like i use for cord cutting spells, to hold stick poppets in shape, or used in knot magick, and also be used in handfasting ceremonies. Little trumpet shaped white flowers appear along the vines which look similar to moon flowers, only smaller. It should be mentioned that the seeds are very poisonous just like morning glory flowers and long ago the seed oils were riskly used to induce hallucinations. Woody Nightshade: Unlike the familiarly named deadly nightshade which is more powerful extremely poisonous, this particular plant is woody nightshade, also known as bittersweet nightshade. Although the leaves and stem are still slightly poisonous. This vine can be used in protection against malicious spells from other witches. Can also be used to protect the home. The red berries that come to fruit from the little yellow and purple flowers in the summer time are the most poisonous part of the plant. Long ago, it was somewhat popular to harvested the berries and the juices were used to poison red wine because the colour nor the taste could be easily detected. Along with this, this plant can also assist with more baneful magick such as jinks, curses or hexes. Mullen: An infusion can be made with the leaves to treat frostbite or sunburn. An oil based infusion made with the flowers can be made to produce a strong antibacterial solution which can help reduce migraines by adding about 10 drops into a cup of water or when applied within, can fight against infections of the ear. Mullen leaves can be dried and smoked to relieve chronic cough or asthma. Works very well as a tea if you are suffering from a cold as long as you strain the brew through a cloth so not too get the tiny hairs in your tea. The little hairs from the leaves can cause irritation of the mouth and throat. This plant grows in two year stages. The first year it grows as a short plant with leaves and the second year it grows back to produce a tall stem with a cob of flowers. I like to smoothly harvest the flowers as they appear and make into an antibacterial oil. Long ago the stem and cob at the top of this plant was dipped in wax, lit a flame and used as a torch for light in the dark of night. ...There are so many more plants to choose from that I could talk about. However, the ones mentioned above are all from my gardens and property (pictures were taken late spring/early summer of 2022). Thank you for reading my blog! If I can clarify on anything here or if you have questions, please feel free to ask. Otherwise please submit any comments and questions at www.askagreywitch.com or feel free to send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com

  • Useful baneful magick

    Submitted question covered in this blog: "Is baneful magick bad to use, in your opinion?" As a grey witch I can very much appriciate this question -and so, Thank you to whom submitted it! What makes me a "grey" practitioner of magick is that I work with all kinds of energies to find balance. In my practice magick is not good or bad, dark or light, black or white, etc. It just is. And so, baneful magick can sometimes actually be required in order to bring forth a balance. If you look at it from a light/dark perspective (positive/negative), i work to achieve a "grey zone" in the middle. Sometimes a little positive is required to balance a negative situation. Other times, a little negative may be what's needed in order to create some positive again. Sort of like developing, or evolving after a difficult lesson has been learned. It's never my advice to work negative to negative as this quite often backfires. For example, returning a curse with a curse. I have protections for that . And also, I never work positive to positive for the same reasons. This is why many love spells backfire. Finding the necessary balance required can sometimes involve baneful magick which can influence "the scale" back in the right direction. But, free will is always it's own. If you are mindful of the law of three, bringing balance will return balance. The key is not to over tip the scale off balance, remaining centered. It's usually my instinct to look at a what's required for a situation similar to determining a balancing of energies. Some very basic examples : If someone is hurt, would healing not be appropriate? Perhaps it'd help. If someone is being disruptive, would wishing them calm and peace make a difference? Perhaps they'd feel it? If someone seems obsessed, maybe backing away from them or if need, binding them? Perhaps they get the point. If someone has stolen from me, would someone stealing from them show the original thief how it felt/feels? Perhaps they'd not do it again. If someone flips the middle finger to me while driving past me on a road in a fit of rage, would sending a blessing help them through their already troubled day? Perhaps they need it. Etc. Other information on curses and hexes were included in a previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/curses-and-hexes It is in hopes that this entry has made sense to you as per what i am trying to say in it. LOL comments or questions are always welcome, if you would like me to expand on the above further, just let me know. Thank you for reading my blog! Please feel free to send me your messages or ask if I can elaborate. Questions can be submitted right from the homepage of www.askagreywitch.com

  • "Hollywood" misconceptions

    Some of the questions collected over a period of time covered in this blog: "Doesn't that make you an ugly old woman?" "Can you actually fly on a broom?" "How do you create fire from your fingers?" "How can you levitate?" "Do you worship the devil?" "Is there a spell to shapeshift into an animal?" "Are witches even real?" Although, i did not create a blog entry for each of these questions, i did respond in email to each sender referring them to previously submitted blog entries for clarity. I thought I should at least write about them! These questions are some of the oldest misunderstandings that there are about witches, still today. Of course, we don't have green skin, guaranteed warts, or long pointed noses, etc. like in the image above taken from a scene in the movie, "Wizzard of Oz". Can you believe that some people actually think this? Below I will explain the above questions and a few other Hollywood misconceptions that I have seen still existing in society: Only wemen and not men The term "witch" is actually gender neutral and is used by both men and wemen who identify as a practitioner of witchcraft. Many mistake the term "Warlock" as a male witch term. However it is not and actually originates from Christian beleifs, not Wiccan or witchcraft. Either a man or a women can be a witch. Ugly old ladies only The only explanation I can think of is that long ago it was beleived by many that the male sex was dominant over the female sex. It was frowned upon back in the older days and even down right feared for a women to become overpowered over men. And so, it was automatically aimed that a confident and powerful women must be possessed or guided by evil influence to which witchcraft was often to blam. Another misconception from this is that many Wiccans revere the woman as a more dominant sex over the male. But also, some celebrate the crone stage of life and wisdom, the women elders of magick circles (after mother stage of life of birth and teaching, from much after maiden stage of life of youth and learning). This could have been intimidating to rulers of the world back in the day. Levitation Witches are notorious for working with plants and knowing the properties of certain plants well enough to concoct to create potions, salves, and other ways of ingesting the plants in order to gain certain effects. Some of these effects felt like getting high, or numb simulating a levitation feeling when walking. This has nothing to do with lifting ones self into the air as some may suggest. Flying on brooms Similar to above, flying was sometimes a reference to the effects of hallucinogens from ingesting plants though lotions or salves. Sometimes these salves would be spread on a broom handle while a witch rides the broom between their legs allowing the salves to absorbe into the inner thighs at a safe rate to avoiding overdosing. Another misfact that comes from flying on brooms is that witches used to jump with a broom between their legs to show crops how high to grow. The appearance of this could have looked like someone trying to take off in flight unsuccessfully. Fire summoning There are television shows and movies that depict witches as being able to lite candles by simply pointing at them. This simply isn't true. Witches follow common physics like everyone else. Gory ingredients in potions or Over the years, plant names and references have changed and in ancient times has completely different names then they do today. For example, dog's tail is a type of grass. Or, eye of newt is a type of herb, or frog's toe is a type of flower pettle, etc. Seeing some of these listed in an ingredients list long ago could have created some gory imagery in ones' imaginations to spread further misconceptions of witchcraft. Devil worship Please see this previous blog entry about what it means to be a witch and does not involve the devil: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/how-i-became-a-witch As mentioned, there is no devil in Wiccan religions. Some witches work with different Gods and Godesses through a form of deity worship, prayer or mentorship. No devil - sorry. Turn into animals Through synchronousities a witch communes with nature and the world surrounding. This can include animals. And so, when am animal seems to come to the assistance of a witch it can be seen as a familiar. Either brought forth by spirit by representation or by symbology and properties of the animal, nature provides much influence in magick. Witches may turn to animals for assistance. However, we do not turn into animals! This is another play on words that has been misunderstood over the years. Melt with water Thank you Wizard of Oz! Because of you there are people who actually beleive that water can be bad for witches. Now, to be honest whomever may beleive such a thing probably doesn't believe real witches exist in the first place. LOL So then, Are witches even real? Yes!!!! - In more modern times the internet has actually helped witches find eachother and sharing with eachother beliefs, facts, traditions and practices and to assist other magickal folk and in turn has been enlightening the world. The practices in the craft are growing and the communities with it. Although understandably, many covens still remain hidden and their practices kept protected. ... It should be mentioned that what i mean by " Hollywood " misconception is that most of the misunderstandings about witches are directly related to the creations by movie producers and story book authors from the past who imaginatively focused on scarring their viewers and readers with fictions of witches. Unfortunately, some of those ideas stuck, spread and even survive. Other source of mis facts and mistruths came from the horrible witch trials of previous centuries. In the past, ordinary people were tortured under the suspicion of being a witch and were told the torture would stop if agreed to false ideas of witches such as flying, devil worship, etc. and then they were usually killed. Stories and rumours spread faster than most disease. It also did not help when the Catholic Church basically called occult and pagan practices evil through out history. You may find interesting a previous blog entry about the similarities between Pagans and Catholics: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/catholic-witches Thank you for all of the questions submitted to me at www.askagreywitch.com there are no foolish questions, only opportunities to learn. Your openness and understanding is greatly appriciated. Please do not hesitate to reach out to me at greywitchbryan@gmail.com or from the contact section of the webpage. UPDATED : Since this blog post above, more similar questions have been submitted and mentioned in this more recent blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/misunderstandings-that-continue-to-exist  Movie misunderstandings that continue to exist

  • Familiars

    Submitted question covered in this blog: "Do you have a familiar?" This question is very much appriciated, thank you to whom submited it. I like this question. Because, the way that I view "Familiars" is a bit old fashioned. The was that I approach familiars seems to differ from what I hear many modern witches say now a days in online communities about their own experiences working with a familiar. Many nowadays describe familiars as a living animal, like a physical pet, that a special connected relationship is obtained with. The animal working with in magick is considered a familiar to some witches. In that case, this would be my familiar when she was alive: My cat assisted my magick from 1995 - 2011 Where as to other witches, some say a familiar is similar to working with spirit or ancestors. Like working with spirits of animals that we once knew and loved in life, (or during a previous life) where who's energy can be felt around the witch thereafter. This energy can be helpful to a magickal practitioner depending on intention. I have definately felt my previously living furry friend's energy around me through out the years that followed her passing and have also felt her assistance with my magick at times thereafter. -Picture of my cat's resting place A dictionary meaning that I found on a familiar is, " a demon supposedly attending and obeying a witch, often said to assume the form of an animal. " ...and, there are some witches that believe this as well!!! Soooo, then what do I believe? To me, familiars are energies of past loved pets that feel as though they visit or deliver messages often appearing to a witch through synchronousities, or during spells or ritual which can assist with the workings in the moment. Often crows, rabbits, owls, wolves, mice, and other common wildlife are described as familiars when they seem influenced to approach a witch to assist in one way or another. Sometimes seen as the same species of animal showing themselves repeditively to a witch as a presence to be seen and taken note of. What all of the descriptions above and different beliefs about familiars have in common, that I've found, is that they all involved energetic relationships with animals assisting witches in magick. -picture of the memorial tree, a Weeping Pussy Willow, planted atop my cat's resting place. Thank you for reading about my own perspectives. What are your thoughts?

  • My perspective of Magick

    Submitted question covered in this blog: "Is magic even real?" Absolutely! The influence of magick is everywhere! Thank you for offering this opportunity to debunk another misconception by submitting this question. The idea that magick is not even real floats amongst the general public regularly. First off, I should mention that I personally spell the word magic'k' with a 'k' to seperate what I do from the 'magic' of an illusionist or entertainer. Magic is not real in the sense that it is a trick done to fool it's audience. What I'm going to respond to is in reference to 'magick' as in directing energy to manifest one's desire. From my perspective as a witch, I feel that I can confidently say, "Yes - magick is very real!". I would not continue to pursue an interest in the craft of witchery most of my life if I did not experience beneficial results and successful manifestations from my own personal magickal workings. Of course, I'm not talking about the "Hollywood" magic involving fireballs thrown from one's hand or casting evil on people like you may have read in a book or watched in a movie.  (Makes me laugh)    As eluded to above, the dictionary definition of 'magic' is " Mysterious tricks, such as making things disappear and reappear, performed as entertainment. ” this is obviously not what I am referring to either.    To be clear, when I mention the word 'magick', I am referring to the workings of energy manipulation, or in other words, manifestation through means of intention. The practice of magick is about raising and directing energy to direct one's desires, or fulfill one's intentions. Externally directed energy can have subconscious influences on us when interacting with our own internal energy centres and energy fields (as all living creatures in nature have). It should also be mentioned that free will can never be controlled, and is always our own. There are many ways in which to set your intention to direct energy for the purpose of manifesting. Whether referring to drawing something new coming into our lives (such as love, or prosperity, protections, etc.), or wanting to push something existing out of our lives, (such as removing negativity or avoiding obstacles, banishment, etc. the ability is within us all to make the necessary changes for ourselves to live happier lives.  Sometimes certain kinds of energy work, such as readings, spells, or shadow work, etc. can be a useful tool to help recognize our own true intentions and help to consider the changes required for us to live happier lives.  There are many different ways in which to manifest, and there are a variety of perspectives and opinions involving magick and it's authenticity. I am only able to speak from my own opinions and beliefs. Some examples within my own practice are: my spouse and I literally requested eachother before we met in this life; through spellwork i manifested the home in which we now live; my regular prosperity workings have guided us through the mundane tasks required in order to make a living together; offerings to goddess and gods have been answered very specifically at times... I live the results of my magick. Some say, "Seeing is believing". And so, you may just need to experience it for yourself in order to understand that it's about, that it's actually there, it's everywhere, and that it has been there for the entire time. More about manifestation is available at: https://www.askagreywitch.com/witchcraft Find ways to connect with the magickal moments in your life!!!

  • Witchy difficulties

    Submitted question covered in this blog: " What do you find most difficult about being a witch? " This question is interesting and much appriciated. Because honestly, in my opinion the most difficult part about being a witch is not being understood by the non-magickal folk, or mundane people around me, which i sometimes refer to respectfully as "a Cowan". I'm not referring to stereotypical people who have their own ideas of what a witch is. And, I'm also not speaking about rude or discriminatory people like those whom may avoid me because i wear a penticle around my neck, etc. Disrespectful people are not difficult at all actually... In fact, I see them as having their own lessons to learn in their lives and it's not my responsibility to resolve it for them, personally. (However, I have done reversal spells before with nonharming intention for some individuals to learn from their own mistakes). What I'm actually talking about that I find difficult is with the regular day to day interactions between myself and any non witchy people in my day to day life who unknowingly might break a sacred circle or unintentionally tamper with workings, disrupt traditions or interfere with rituals, etc. What may seem like a minor disturbance or small distraction can actually be quite counter productive to my practices. With regularity, can get down right frustrating. For example, say I'm harvesting and collecting specific plants or herbs, (dandelions would be a great example). A Cowan may look at my bounty of collected stems, roots and leaves as just a bunch of picked weeds that needs to be discarded and may think themselves doing me a favour by throwing them out when I'm not around. This happens occationally in my home involving my young adult children or with my spouse at times. This is indeed perfectly understandable (of course,) with them not having the experience or knowledge in the craft as I do to know any better for themselves. So naturally, i understand even though it can be difficult at times. Sometimes, it can still lead to energy and intention being disrupted. Even before being harvested, i can find myself protecting and vouching for the life of some of my plants due to the fact of others not understanding my intentions. Some people just want to pull them out of the ground before they bloom not realizing it's a flower, or remove them when they are blooming calling it a weed, or just want to mow them down either way just because it's too wild looking or looks disorganized. Not even referring to the non witches that live in my home. In the city where i reside, there are strict bylaws around the maintenance of neighbourhood properties, what plants are allowed to grow within the city limits and there's also a height limit of 7 inches (about 25 cm) as well as other rules for citizens to follow. This often conflicts with my green-witch side. Here is the difficulty: My entire property is a wild naturalized area designated to provide for everything that I need in my craft. But, also my property provides food, substance and shelter to a variety of birds, bees, butterflies, insects, mice and many other small creatures. Each and every spring I receive visits from the city bylaw officer to my home explaining the number of complains from my neighbours reported to city officials. Their concerns that my whole yard is long and tall and wildly, ...and ...yeah, it is!!! As I can prove that i do remove common allergy sources from my "gardens" (such as Ragweed, for example) and I am able to identify every plant that's growing in the area, showing that each is grown ornamentally or has a purpose. Because if this, the city does not take action against me. At one point the city even provided a naturalist expert to visit my home in hopes it would be suggested that I change to a less wild approach. However, when she arrived she understood what i was trying to acheive and absolutely loved my attempts to create a self sustaining property. It should be mentioned that I do keep it maintained as per naturalized yard regulations stated in the by-law regulations. All of the neighbours who continue to complain still do so with no avail. Other than that lesser annoyances mentioned above there really isn't much that I find difficult about being a witch. In fact, I would rather think it would be much more difficult if I wasn't a witch! I'm not sure where i would be in my life if I did not walk my path in the craft, not follow through with my manifestations, didn't do spell work, rituals and traditions, etc. My practice has made me who I am today. Thank you for sending in this question. If you have your own questions please feel free to submit them at www.askagreywitch.com

  • Purchased items used in my practice

    Submitted question covered in this blog/pictures: "Can you talk more about purchased items you use in your practice?" I believe what this submitted question is referring to is in a previous blog, i mentioned: ...it DOES take time and patience to grow, seek out or create ingredients or tools to be used within spellwork. Many self made tools tends to be temporary and may need to be replaced or created regularly. With the hustle and bustle of modern life sometimes it may feel like they're just isn't the time to take to make it happen. Not to mention some are not crafty or skilled in making their own supplies, Or perhaps patience just isn't a 'strong suit that is worn often'. If you have the means, there is nothing wrong with purchasing ingredients and tools to save time or be relieved of stress and hassle. It is strongly recommended that when purchasing supplies, that the objects be cleansed and charged with your own energy or consecrated before using for your workings. Items created by others can still contain the others' intentions and energies. Be sure to know the energies you're working with in spellwork! Personally, I have purchased many tools and supplies for convenience over the years of my practice. But, I thought it may be helpful for me to share some of the items that I have created for myself or was provided by nature that I use in my practice:... From: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/self-made-tools-within-my-craft The above was from a previous blog entry about self made tools that I personally use within my craft. Thank you for asking me to expand on this. Here, in this blog entry, below, I thought I would answer by sharing about some of the items that I've either had custom made for me by other practitioners, or that I have purchased and cleansed or consecrated to be used within my own craft. It is worth reiterating that purchasing items and supplies are completely not necessary to start a practice in witchcraft or Wicca. There is no actual need to spend money in order to be a witch. Spellwork is powered by intention. And so, in my tradition the only tool that I really need, to focus and direct energy, is my mind and the pointer and middle fingers of my own hands. Magical tools and ingredients definitely can help direct energy to focus that intention. However, the best tools to use are the ones that are provided by and found within nature, or hand made by ourselves. Purchased items Smaller Crystals Charged to be used with a variety of spell workings (or as associations to represent various energies working with), the vibrations from smaller crystals are often taken advantage of. Larger Crystals Providing a means of clarity, clearing and cleansing, larger crystals are used in my practice to ground, align with and take advantage of the higher vibrational and energetic patterns of each. Crystal balls Crystal balls are an excellent divination tool in my practice that I also use for focusing, and remaining objective during spellwork for others, as well as during tarot readings. I write about using my crystal balls during tarot readings in my Stafford Tarot Blog: https://www.staffordtarot.com/post/the-use-of-crystal-balls-during-readings Singing bowls An excellent way for me to clear energy for me in my practice is with singing bowls. I have several different kinds, sizes and tones that I associate for different uses. This is my largest, which can cleanse my entire home with its powerful sound vibrations. Candles An ongoing and never ending collection of candles. My immediate family has caught on that candles make excellent gifts when I'm hard to shop for - LOL. Once cleansed and consecrated purchased candles can be a time saver given all the application abilities with candle magick. Books (suggestion to read, read, read...) Reading books and articles (hard cover it online) can be excellent sources of information. Although many of the books that I have purchased are provided by online reader services and can't show them here, what I can show are a few of the printed books that I have around. Even though each has been thoroughly read, they still make excellent resources to refer back to when trying to be more creative within workings. Tarot Cards and Oracle Decks Another massive collection of mine are the number of tarot and oracle decks that I own. Even though I've made tarot reading into a profession, there are many decks of cards that I do not use within readings for others and are strictly for my own personal use (not shown here). I talk more about my tarot decks on my Stafford Tarot blog at: https://www.staffordtarot.com/blog/categories/tarot-decks Cauldron Quite often a containment is required during spellwork whether for a collection of ingredients, or to create/mix oils, or to hold a flame, my cauldren assists with many of my spells and rituals. Athame Similar to a wand, my athame is used to direct energy during rituals, ceremonies or spellworkings as well as carve runes, sigils or other magickal markings. If used for anything harmful (such as a to injure or wound), would be considered affensive and sacreligious. Ritual Sword Used along with a spear in Seax Wiccan traditions, this sword was custom made for me to be used within sacred rites, rituals, ceremonial traditions and spellwork. If used for anything of a harmful nature (such as a sword fight, or a wounding for example) would be considered affensive and sacreligious. -- Thank you for visiting and reading my blog. If I can clarify anything here or if you have questions, please feel free to submit your comments and questions on the homepage of www.askagreywitch.com or send email to greywitchbryan@gmail.com

  • The deal with white sage

    Submitted question covered in this blog : " You mentioned burning sage to cleanse, isn't that a closed practice? " Thank you for this question. I believe this question is referring to where i mentioned using sage to smoke cleanse in the previous blog/video: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/smoke-cleansing-and-black-salt There are many misconceptions about the use of white sage and even more missunderstandings. Firstly, the use of white sage, is NOT a close practice. If you are mimicking an indigenous ritual with the use of white sage, then YES - that would be cultural appropriation. It's the ritual itself that is closed to outsiders of the practice. Not the general use of the white sage plant itself. I also write about closed practices in a previous blog entry: https://www.askagreywitch.com/post/open-practices-vs-closed-practices The way i understand it is that there is a concerning issue with this particular type of herb is that it only naturally grows in nature within certain areas of the world where it is depended on by local indigenous cultures. Currently, for resale around the world this plant is being over harvested (in those natural areas) which is effecting the supply for the local peoples of that area, specifically a community in California, United States. It can be a good idea to consider growing your own white sage to reduce the demand and strain on the local communities where it grows naturally. It is similar to Paulo Santo, which is a type of wood that is over harvested and seems to be gradually going extinct. There are local peoples where this supply of wood originated that struggle to maintain their cultures traditions due to this scarcity being created. Again, it is not a closed practices to use the ingredients within your traditions. However, when over harvesting is due to manufacturing a product in order to sell to consumers around the world, it can be prevented. In my climate zone where I live on the planet a white sage plant can survive a few years of properly taken care of and covered in the winter weather. Due to the harsh conditions of the Canadian winters the plant eventually turns 'woody' and strangely, and eventually dies, since the plant only survives in the wild in a certain California mountain range climate. Personally, I'm not a big advocate to the movement being discussed here. But, if I can help another community of spiritual folk, no matter their background or traditions, to express themselves more freely by avoiding purchasing white sage products in stores, than so shall it be. And so, i don't buy it. I do grow it in my garden. Now, some would also say that even purchasing the seeds for the plant should also be avoided. Afterall, the manufacturers probably harvested the plants to get the seeds - no doubt, right?! There isn't an easy way to tell, as a consumer, if the sage plants or seeds of the plant come ethically, like from a green house environment, or if it was harvested in the wild from their natural environment without consideration for the reprocautions on the community of local tribes. Do your research if feeling you require white sage in your practice. Who is the supplier? What information do they provide up front? Where do they source the herbs? How is/if the profits from sales benifits local California tribes and indigenous communities? ...etc. It is in hopes that this is helpful. If you have questions please feel free to submit them at www.AskaGreyWitch.com

  • Dream work

    Submitted question covered in this blog: " Do you know a spell to remember your dreams after waking up ?" Actually, i came across a way to remember dreams accidentally working with plants and herbs. This question is greatly appriciated, thank you. Previously I tried to create a more restful sleep for myself by mixing scents with incense or mist sprays. In doing so, i found that specific herbs have off a scent that could encourage the recollection or details when dreaming. The spell that I recommend is extremely simple. But requires a certain mist spray or incense combination. The scents that I found most restful was a jasmine/cedarwood infusion. I like to make into a sleep potion mist spray that I can spray the mist around myself before starting my bedtime routine (brush teeth, change clothes, etc.). The mist helpes to calm the mind before falling asleep allowing to remain calm throughout and experiencing a more restful sleep. However, I also noticed having more dreams during. Or rather, I was in fact remembering more of the dreams that I have while I slept when I use the spray in this way. To remember my dreams even more clearly than I was with the above method, as referred to in the submitted question, I would add rosemary or mugwart to make this mist, or the placing of a rosemary or mugwart herb bundle under my pillow whilst I sleep would also work well. To make the mist spray mentioned above, I like to use moon water and witchhazel as the base (witchhazel helps everything mesh with the water for a more even distribution in the mist).  If no witchhazel is available, can use a strong alcohol like vodka (ratio: 1/3 witchhazel (or alcohol) and 2/3 moon water. Then add 20-30 drops of each essencial oils, in this case jasmine and cedarwood (or sandlewood would also work). Let sit until the next full moon and then use anytime thereafter.  To use, shake well and then mist in the air around about 10 or so minutes before expecting to go to sleep. Place the mugwart or rosemary under your pillow placed in a little bag, or sachet, it wrapped in a thin cloth. These herbs can also be combined into an incense to burn the smoke lightly and waft around you before starting your bedtime routine.  This is a great time to say an incantation, prayer, or speak your desires with intention. As well as with a scented oil mixture version, this mist spray or incense mix can be used in conjunction with astral travel or dream work to help remember details more clearly. If wanting to remember your dreams always keep a notebook or memopad and a pen or pencil beside the bed where you sleep so that whenever you wake up, right away you can write down the details you remember. This is important because each of us slowly begin to forget what we dream once we wake up. So, writing it down right away - first thing allows to review and remember details. Also, throughout the day, if you can recall anything further about your dreams from that night prior, then adding those details to your notebook or memo to yourself may help to compile as much of the dream as possible. Another way to use dreams to your advantage is to ask yourself a specific question before you fall asleep and then allow your subconscious mind in your dreams to describe the answer to you. To do this, spray the mist around as described above and then write the question for yourself on a piece of paper and place it under your pillow while you sleep. Then, in the morning (or whenever you wake up) write down any details they can be remembered. What is wrote down should contain the answer to the asked question. If there are any questions about this spell please do not hesitate to ask. Of course, other questions that haven't been covered yet with a blog entry can be submitted at www.askagreywitch.com Rest well, & Thanks for visiting and reading my blog!

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